I'm getting married tomorrow! And my stomach is upside down. This was suppost to be a simple ceremony and it's turned into a huge todo! We wanted to have friends and family and sink money into the reception and honeymoon. We leave for our honeymoon tomorrow night for a week cruise. I have been packing for 2 hours and I'm overwelmed with stress. He's working and won't be home until later tonight. I'm afraid I'm going to forget something >>> ceremony/honeymoon and I'm thinking about going accross the street and have a drink! How am I going to relax and just go with the flow? I feel like crying!
2007-05-04 10:11:02 · 13 answers · asked by Flying w/ scissors 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My maid of honer took me this morning to get a manicure and pedicure.. We planed the ceremony around the cruise! Wanted it this way, the ship diesn't leave until 4:30 Sunday. I just want to leave tomorrow night so we won't be in a rush! They are cooking across the street for my reception. I'm not a big drinker so it would only be one. He's not here to tell me what he wants to take!
2007-05-04 10:30:22 · update #1
Baby all I can tell you is to calm down go get that drink relax for about 30 Min's and make sure you have everything that you need to bring for yourself and then get the thing's you think he wants, start from head to toe go slowly and if it's not everything he wants let him get the rest, this is not only your wedding but his too I wish you luck sweetie!!! and please just have one drink because today would be the day you would drink more we don't need any hangovers and to make you a checklist!!
2007-05-04 10:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by babyfineohyeah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX!!
Take an hour and enjoy a nice long bubble bath. Give yourself a pedicure. Spend some time on yourself. Even if things don't go exactly as planned tomorrow, by the end of the day you'll still be the new Mrs. Insertyournewnamehere.
Take a notepad with you into the bathtub, and write down some things that you'll need... Call and talk to a friend that recently got married, and see if she felt this way the night before.
Remember to breathe. Everything will be great. And, if anything goes awry, think of the great stories you can tell every anniversary!
2007-05-04 17:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by katie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you made the mistake by having your honeymoon right after the ceremony and reception. That is why you are stressed if you had planned them say a week apart you would not be so messed up. Go have that drink your senses are on overload and well your body could use a break have a nice cold drink and then it may give you the needed time and relaxing to makesure you have everything.
Congrats and God Bless
P.S. most common thing important left behind in a rush Passports/and airline or in case cruise tickets.!
2007-05-04 17:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink some tea or something if you go across the street in the condition your in then you could end up very drunk and have a hang over and look terrible for the wedding! If you forget something which I doubt you will since you have been packing for two hours, they keep stuff on the boat for you to purchase. How much stuff do you need to be in a room doing the wild thing on your honeymoon. Do not worry everything will turn out wonderful.
2007-05-04 17:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by Gidget 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that no matter what else happens, tomorrow you will be married!
Everything is out of your hands now. Take a deep breath, grab a glass of wine and a good book and take a bubble bath.
You have plenty of time to take care of stuff because you're probably not going to sleep much tonight anyway!
Just relax and enjoy this time before your special day.
2007-05-04 17:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by nailgal2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
robin honey sit down relax in 24 hours it will be over and you will finally be Mrs .......whatever lol.
have a glass of warm milk and sit and breath slowly for a while and chill.
just pack for a holiday dont think of it as your honeymoon, it will feel easier.
anyways i hope everything goes well tomorrow, good luck and god bless.
2007-05-04 17:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just nervous Congratulations and if you need a drink shoot have one enjoy your day and may it be filled with blessing for a happy life together
2007-05-04 17:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by Dareisha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pop a couple of Vicodins, and you will be alright.
Xanax will work, too.
Oh yeah, and congrats on the wedding! You'll get through this. ;)
2007-05-04 18:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
UGH! just try to have fun and worry and stress about your MARRIAGE. that is what is important. worry about how to have a wonderful relationship with your husband. good luck
2007-05-04 17:15:45 · answer #9 · answered by loco doc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it out... cry your heart out. then remember how much you love your fiancee and know that time goes on so years later you will think back to this night and laugh. trust me, time heals everything.
2007-05-04 17:15:42 · answer #10 · answered by sarah w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋