My husband and I have an open relationship - he is allowed to do whomever he wants and so am I. My bf and I got caught one night by a neighbor who was with my husband , my husband was mad but just because my bf was a friend of his (but we didn't have any rules against that)and the fact that a neighbor had caught us. Now my bf has been acting weird. He has stopped the way he use to be around me and is acting more standoffish. Why? He knows the relationship is open, and that I can still do what I want. I know that he loves me because he still tells me he does. Even after we got caught we talked and he wanted to know who it was who caught us, because he didnt know. When I told him, he was furious saying that he would take care of that person for screwing things up. So I know that he still cares and still wants to be with me, so why is he acting so strange???? Why can't things just go back like they were?? Help please!!!!
2007-05-04 10:07:11 · 10 answers · asked by syns_pleasure 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because society still carries the stipulation that men are supposed to be tough and unemotional. Where as we female's are supposed to possess the 'handicap' of emotions and sensitivity.
2007-05-04 10:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by aslongasitrocks 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Open relationship and husband in the same sentence tells me there is a problem.
It's either one way or the other, in my book.
Why bother with trusting anyone, or caring about the one you trust if you have neither.
It's not just one person, if he is acting standoffish, mabye he knows your relationship affects other people, other than himself.
2007-05-04 17:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by Vector180 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are crazy. Your obvously not married and god is not very happy with you twol. Your whole relationship is screwed up.
2007-05-04 17:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by u2ugly2nv18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't even worth answering. Go to therapy, get help for your marriage.
2007-05-04 17:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are getting more than he is. bring a girlfriend home and share her with him. things will get back to normal. Then email or IM me. maybe I could drop by sometime????
2007-05-04 17:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, no relationship can withstand that type of situation, i don't care what you say about "it's open" sooner or later it's going to all fall apart.
2007-05-04 17:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by sarah w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um this is complicated- way too many variables.Try the whole monogamy thing instead.
2007-05-04 17:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by (notso)Gloriouspipecleaner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg y u and your husband doing that if yall dont wanna be together just get a divorce gosh. and your bf.. idk whats wrong with him. maybe hes embarassed that he got caught doing one of his friend's wife
2007-05-04 17:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by tay-tay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GROW UP! You shouldnt be married, you should be in a clinic!
2007-05-04 17:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk right now i could careless about boy's ........... their stupid and not worth u'r time
2007-05-04 17:09:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋