i'm 30 years old and still single. what am i doing wrong. people say i'm nice looking and a lovely person but still no dates. can anyone give me advice on pulling a guy? I have had some luck in past but just not happening at moment.
2007-05-04 10:03:36 · 12 answers · asked by Emmie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Snap. I'm 33 and still single. But don't think there's something wrong with you it's just the right person ain't came along
2007-05-04 10:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by whatdoiwant?????? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey I'm 34 and single! People say the same things about me too but no potentials on the horizon. I'm just getting on with my life and doing all the things I enjoy and hopefully someone will come along one day x
2007-05-04 13:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by farleyjackmaster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go looking for it coz it wont happen. I feel the same as you sometimes. I think im an attractive person and friendly, but get no where. Maybe you will find the right person in time. Appearing desperate is going to push people away.
Carry on being your jolly self and eventually you will get your man.
2007-05-04 10:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by sarah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
may be you over-react when u see a potential date OR too possessive OR jealous OR not ready for committment OR u r too pushy OR selfish..could be many other reasons...if u think u r wrong somewhere, try giving good shot in that place..it may work....by the way people also say : beauty lies in eyes of a beholder ...love cannot be chased... love happens when where it shud happen...destiny cant be changed
2007-05-04 10:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by RCD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so desperate to find love. No one likes needy. And your ONLY 30! Big WOW! You have years. Stop fretting pet and just enjoy yourself, the one will come along when its time, until then, just relax and go with the flow. Forcing it will not be worth it.
2007-05-04 10:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont dwell on it. go with the flow, you'll meet someone when you do meet them! cliched response i know but its so true in your case. you dont find love if you look for it, it just creeps up on you! maybe your need to be in a relationship is obvious and scaring off any potential suitors? being singles not the worst thing!! you'll miss it when you find someone so make the most of it!!
2007-05-04 11:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by DesertRose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't go looking?? Wierd but true when i was last single i just set out to enjoy myself with friends ended up meeting someone... If your friends say your nice and pretty it'll happen ...
2007-05-04 10:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol...don't fret, we ALL have lean periods -trust me, the sun seems just a sight dimmer when there is no love on the horizon...infact im going through one myself and i miss THAT feeling but i also remember the hassles...anyway what im saying is that (i know it isnt much) you should just keep on keeping on and it will happen.
2007-05-04 10:12:15 · answer #8 · answered by amphetamine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THE LAST LINE IN YOUR NOTE ABOVE IS THE
PERFECT ANSWER. NOT AT THE MOMENT.
EVERYONE HAS SOMEONE FOR THEM. IT
JUST DOESN'T HAPPEN OVERNIGHT. U NEED
TO EXPLORE YOUR OPTIONS, AND MAKE SURE
THAT U FIND THE RIGHT PERSON FOR U. AND
I DO NOT SAY PERFECT CAUSE NO ONE IS
PERFECT. I UNDERSTAND THE YEARS ARE
PASSING AND U ARE GETTING IMPATIENT.
BUT DO NOT GIVE UP HOPE ..... U WILL FIND
UR HAPPINESS.......
2007-05-04 10:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing some ppl just having met that special someone yet. talk to them go to speed dating meet people on line (eharmony sites like those)
2007-05-04 10:09:39 · answer #10 · answered by kitcatss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋