he always does this. He will not call me for a few days, than when I go to his work he makes me feel stupid for freaking out. He says nothing is wrong and I worry to much. We havent fought about anything so his not calling is shocking me. Around 8 my friend is taking me to his work to see whats wrong or Im just going alone. Why do you think he's doing this and what do you think is wrong? I know he's very busy but I tell him all the time I just want a call.
2007-05-04 10:00:10 · 13 answers · asked by Heartbroken 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't go over to his work. When guys stop calling, it means they are no longer interested, but don't want to say that directly to break your heart. They imagine you will forget about them over the time, which is stupid. But guys are like that. Trust me. That's how my last ex broke up with me. He just stopped talking to me. I think you need to accept that. It's very very hard. But true. Sorry. =(
2007-05-04 10:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by GucciGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go now...5 days??? And nothing is wrong... do you honestly believe that?
No, because you are smarter then that. You shouldn't go to his job tonight. This man is probably living double lives. Each time you go to his job and he makes you feel that nothing is wrong, is just another chance for him to think to himself "Wow...I got her." You never want a man to think that. If I were you I would just go on with your life. There is no way this man is your boyfriend. He lives in the same city and doesn't contact you for five days? Yea, right. Do yourself a favor and lose him. In the end he is either married or dating someone else. It's sad, but a least you only put four months into him and four years.
2007-05-04 10:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just go quietly on this one. With a name like Ernestine there are lots of ways you can shorten it to sound funkier. There are also lots more weird and wonderful names out there than there used to be so I doubt she'll get picked on about it. Give her a nice middle name then when she's older if she really hates her first name she can start using the middle name instead. She also might like the fact that she's been named for a grandmother she never knew.
2016-05-20 08:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by inocencia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him all the time that you just want a call - and he doesn't call - what does that SAY TO YOU!?!?!? And why can't you call him? What is it that prevents you from calling him? What's up with you going to his work?
Four months with this man is four months too long. If you're telling him that you need a call - and he's refusing to do it - then he's not somebody you want in your life. What is it that makes you think your not good enough to have somebody who respects you and provides you with what you need? If you are worthy of being treated kindly - and you're not getting kindness (and you're not!) - then get out.
2007-05-04 10:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by liddabet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My bf does that to me to, guys need space i guess. Try suprising him BY not calling or going to his wrk. C how he likes it. I now its hard trust me im there. But i hear you n the phone calls, its not like its hard to call. But leave a message ot txt him and be like listen if you don't wanna call me thats fine but im done trying to fix everything, its ur turn to make a move and if you don't want to than were done.
2007-05-04 10:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be frank. he's got somebody else and it sounds like you're the girl on the side. that's how we(or at least me) do things. if he works all the time that is a good excuse to use. but you're being played! and if not youre playing yourself by letting this continue. get the hell out of dodge young lady
2007-05-04 10:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jayvo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go to his job, then you are going to be seen as crazy, psycho, stalker chick. He's going to dump you.
Just go out with your friends and get a hobby. He'll call when he calls. Quit sitting at home waiting for him to call. Go out and have fun.
My guess is the more fun you are having without him, the more likely he'll be to call you.
2007-05-04 10:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt contact you in 5 days??!
jesus i get pissed off if idont have a text form my boyfriend every day.
he txts me in the morning and on and off throughout the day and always b4 he goes to bed.
when do you see each other?
this doesnt sound like a healthy relationship, get him told you want more time together!
2007-05-04 10:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by mowgligurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your being desperate and needy. Its scaring him. Honestly your relationship is doomed, your both playing games and its not healthy. He isnt the one my dear!
2007-05-04 10:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's seeing someone close to his job. Or just trying to find a way to let you down easy. SORRY!
2007-05-04 10:06:27 · answer #10 · answered by mr.rod33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋