My daughter is 17, she was talking on the phone to her boyfirne about sex. She was wondering were they could have sex without us knowing. They said they didn't want a hotel room adn that their parents were gonna be home all weekend. Is their any place they might go to avoid us?
2007-05-04 09:56:06 · 24 answers · asked by Dana 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just hope and pray they use protection.
2007-05-04 10:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by jenny_deliah 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They will find somewhere, the best thing you can do at this point is to educate her about safe sex, maybe get her on the pill, or buy her some condoms. I know this sounds like something you don't want to buy for your daughter, I know I wouldn't want to, but you have to realize that if a seventeen year old wants to do something, she's going to find a way. Try telling her she can't leave the house for the weekend, If she really wants to do it, she'll find a way to sneak out. Better to help her be safe then sorry.
Remember that locking her in her room, with no way of escape is illegal. What happens if there is a fire and she has no way out? She could die! How bad would you feel then. And to AJ, If she were dead set on doing this, do you really think a screw in the window is going to keep her in? Glass breaks.
2007-05-04 10:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's probably one of the last things you want to hear your daughter talking about. The truth is, if a teenager wants to do something, they will find any place or any way to do it.
The only thing you can really do at this point is talk to her. It will probably be extremely awkward and you'll probably get a teenage girl fit thrown at you, but if she's a good kid she'll take what you say into account. Gotta talk to her about protection, too, because teenagers aren't the brightest crayons in the box when it comes to sex.
There's nothing worse than having your mom saying "behave yourself" or "don't do it" in the back of your head while you're trying to have sex. It's stopped me a few times!
2007-05-04 10:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should have yanked her lil *** and SAID here sweety here's some condoms ( so that he isnt able to talk her out of using them u tell her why besides the fact she could get pregnant) diseases, boys,lies, just make sure she's being becareful and love her....
dont worry its NOT ok to be having sex at 17 but this is something all of them are going threw if u can catch them before they do it excellent preach but if they are already doing it just talk to them and be open minded dont make them feel as if they have to sneak or low because they have done it because then they are not so careful they rush and make mistakes .be a mom love her let her know that she can come to u about anything and everything make her feel comfortable
and give her a lil space i mean dont try to meet them there
just let her know society and be there let her learn on her own or she never will......
u cant hold on to them forever let the chain go a little bit.let them be who they are those turn out to be the best
take her to get contraception if u have not already
continue to talk to her and support her experiences BUT LOVING HER is always the key...... worry but dont too much for what u teach her and( boundaries) should keep her safe.
GOOD LUCK
2007-05-04 10:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by SWEET S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're talking about dry sex, when you rub two bodies together without penetration.It's a simulation of sex, and can be very pleasurable for both pepole, it's a great way to build tension and excitement. For something 'unique', while he's fallen asleep, wrap your legs around his body and rub up and down slowly at first and then as he wakes up he should join in faster etc. This will be naughty and very sexy for him! Hope I helped :)
2016-05-20 08:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by inocencia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people got charged last summer having sex on the beach at 7am when no one was there. it true some one phoned the because it was Private priority and it was a friends house or one of there own places. a friend of my he has sex at a friends house. there is for play that a easier way of sex and then there is real sex that,s intercourse , for play can be any were but sex has to be on a flat ground or on furniture.the car is out of stiyle now a days that,s so 50.s
2007-05-04 10:08:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dana,
Talk to her...tell her how you feel about having sex before marriage. But ultimatly if she is going to have sex then she will or should I say they will find a way.....from this point you can do nothing to stop them but just incourgage them not to do this....or just beat both there @$$'s and send him to his house after you call his momma!
2007-05-04 10:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by 2muchcoffee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
anywhere, really. and don't even try to prevent her from having sex. she will most likely not listen. however, just lightly mention things such as using birth control pills, condoms, and protection "stuff" .there really is no way to stop your daughter because she can do it anywhere, but you'd rather have her not pregnant than pregnant.
2007-05-04 10:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friends house
2007-05-04 10:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a basement lock them in there. Or if you have some realitves close go and visit them for the weekend and let them have the house.
2007-05-04 10:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by williamcaseih 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it was bound to happen....
really nothing you can do about it.
Try being more open to your kids...
"OH!!!!! NO SEX NO SEX UNTIL YOUR 60!"
don't really work with kids...
More you say NO more they want to try.
Rather than saying NO SEX NO SEX...
why don't you direct them to a Safer sex..
teach her about a girl's body... how the body makes babies... importance of birth control...
because like it or not, soon or later your daughter is going to have sex. It would be better to educate her in safe sex than just screamer "NO SEX"..
because lack of sex education.. can lead to early pregnancy, early divorce... on and on and on...
2007-05-04 10:06:16 · answer #11 · answered by Air 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋