I am a virgin, and I want to sleep with my bf (who I love), but he has been with quite a few other women. It is not the point that he has been with other women that bothers me, but that he is so much more experienced than me.
How do guys feel about having sex with a virgin, do they enjoy it a lot less?
2007-05-04 09:39:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No I think they enjoy it more. Coming from a woman who was in that same position, I think it thrills them to be able to teach someone and also to have that one precious thing. While it is a lot less complicated than all of that. I don't think it will matter as to if you are. He is still going to love it.
2007-05-04 09:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by Molly M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I love her, I doesn't bother me if she is virgin or has had several partners. But just to sleep around, I don't like having sex with a virgin. I just want sex, no connection. And sex with a virgin can get kind of boring. But sex with someone you love, its more about the act of making love and connecting with each other.
2007-05-04 09:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by hispanoloco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard question because it is like asking what flavor of ice cream do girls like?
We are all different.
The important thing is that you are convinced that this is the one you want to do this with.
Then be slow and gentle. This is not a project to be accomplished. It is making love. Since he is experienced, it should be helpful.
2007-05-04 09:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys prefer virgin's because a virgin is very tight inside and hasn't been loosened up. Some guys love breaking a girls hymec(sp?) and making her bleed, it is just a fetish for some guys.
2007-05-04 10:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be honest, it is not as fun. BUT!!! If the girl has a good attitude, make it known to me that she's willing to learn and has an open mind, then yeah I'm glad to spend time with her. Open communication is the key.
Everyone has to start somewhere, and my first girl was very good to me too. Hopefully your bf is patient, loving, got good skills and a good teacher. :-)
2007-05-04 09:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by Lyon D. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say wait to get married. and no i really dont enjoy having sex with virgins becaues they cant take it. u cant have fun with a virgin like u can with a girl whos not a virgin u have to take your time with them. "that if u can even put it in" and if he dont get fustrated and go soft. i might get a lot of thumbs down but im keeping it real
2007-05-04 09:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, because you will be much tighter then more experienced girls and guys really enjoy knowing that another guy hasn't touched a girl sexually before.
2007-05-04 09:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you and he asks you if you ever had sex, i would lie and say yes. and if you feel bad about lyeing, don't worry! Cause you DID have sex, with him! I think alot of guys don't like doing IT with a virgin, mabye you should ask him what does he think?
2007-05-04 09:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, guys could care less!!
It doesnt take much to get them off!!!
Just make sure this is what you want and he is not pressuring you
2007-05-04 09:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, according to my research, many men like to have sex with a virgin because it will be a great achievement because they will be the first one who will devirginized you.
2007-05-08 00:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by historyboy666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋