Dont you guys think I have been ton the police by now? Dontn you think I have been to legal Aid nand those places by now? Dont you think I have searched the Internet by now? It has been a whole year plus some for crying out loud. I have 80 hrs to go into my externship so i can make money to have a lawyer. I apparently did not have custody because we were not married and I couldnt very well get childsupport from someone who was in jail. I pray a lot and I tried every thing I could think of except called the news and talk shows which I am starting to do now. I cant afford to do much with a 7& 10n year old at home and on welfare and a full time student. I know its hard to believe but these are the same type of responses I got from a whole lot of people who were supposed to in my opionion to help. No its not kidnapping when his name is on the birth certificate. The cops in chicage told me to find out where his wife works and follow her. How would I do that from Michigan and going to school
2007-05-04 09:29:18 · 11 answers · asked by Lil Momma 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I have read all of your questions. My son's father took him once. The police told me the same thing. This also happened to my cousin. They told her the same thing as well. No custody order, they are not getting involved. I got my son back because his dad just brought him back (thank God). My cousin actually had to go to court and file for custody (she knew his address and all his info because he was already on child support). They ended up getting joint custody.
Your problem is you can't find him. Of course if you had an address all you would have to do is file for custody and they would serve him. Then if he ran it would become a police matter. But for now, you need to get the word out. Either the News stations or THE INTERNET! That's the best way. Why because when people send out forwards they usually circle the globe. You need pics of your kids, their names (because maybe their school teacher will get the email), and you need the father's name and any of his relatives' names. Put it all in an email (if you need help writing the email hit me up). Then send it to everyone in your address book online. Then they will forward it and so on.......
2007-05-04 09:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by Keetta 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are wrong on here. If there is no father listed on the birth certificate, the child has no legal father and therefore this man was kidnapping according to the law, whether he is the bio father or not. Your sister needs to get this straightened out ASAP. She needs to go to court and make sure she has full legal and physical custody. Document everything, including this incident and the threatening from the grandparents. She should explain that she thinks they are a flight risk. Have her try to get the father to have supervised visitation.
2016-04-01 08:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to Michigan law, the biological mother has all rights to the kids. The father must then go to the court systems, and file to have "visitation" rights. The only way the father is allowed to see the kids, is if he has a court written document stating that fact (or if the mother agrees) In the document, it will clearly define what days, times, and hours, the father is allowed to see the kids. Also, whether in jail or not, he is still obligated to pay back child support since the time of birth, but you actually have to go to the courts and get it in writing. Also, if the father is not paying child support, then he legally is not allowed to see the kids unless by your permission.
2007-05-04 09:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to petition the court for custody, or visitation this is usually a 25 doller fee. go to the court house and let someone know you want to file for custody they should send you in the right direction. By law they have to set you a court date. do it now, the longer you wait the court will frown upon you.. secondly, to you have the affidavit of parentage from the hospital birth that states you have custody unless there is a court order or writtin consent signed by the mother and father stating visitation? By the sounds of it there is not...Ive been through this hun, feel free to ask and questions..Also if there is a documented case of domestic violence or child abuse or neglect against him it should not be hard to prove him unfit, also he can try to prove you unfit as well so be carefull. Find a victim advocate as well.
2007-05-04 09:39:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't legal aid help you? You need more serious help than what we here can provide you. There are obviously serious custody issues that need to be worked out. If you have to, research and file your own petition for custody. Contact social services in Michigan. find someone to drive you to Michigan. Go without eating to pay for a bus ticket. These are your children. don't take no for an answer. If he just got out of prison recently, he should be on parole, right? Contact his parole officer. Call the local paper of the town in which he lives. Contact his employer. Call his relatives.
2007-05-04 09:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by meridocbrandybuck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am kinda confused to. but i would try the internet. also try using the news channels in ur area. send out pics of your babies through them. also make flyers. also maybe u can contact the police in the state he or the wife is in. you may not know the exact area but they might b able to direct u in the right direction. good luck to u. i hope everything works out
2007-05-04 10:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to kidnap them back, carefully and then file for custody, you do not need an attorney to do so, get involved in a church even if you are not religious, never miss a wed or Sunday, take the kids, the church will be able to help a lot sounds crazy but it is true, not catholic though, sorry all you catholics but its true, try a non denominational good luck, i will keep you in my prayers
2007-05-04 09:47:42 · answer #7 · answered by melissa s 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm so confused, and concerned! How can he have taken the kids away from you, especially if you weren't married? You are the biological mother!
Please explain. I agree, it sounds like kidnapping to me.
2007-05-04 09:34:21 · answer #8 · answered by purplebinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I respectfully request that you clearly state what your question is. Some of the comments you made are either under-explained or contradictory.
2007-05-04 09:38:43 · answer #9 · answered by Pint 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
where does your ex husband live cuz if you know where she lives thern ya can f,loow her?
2007-05-04 10:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by handsomecowboy39 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋