Literally every guy in my life I like because I can't have him, and then if i get him, the attraction is gone. I really don't know what's wrong with me! help.
2007-05-04 09:17:56 · 11 answers · asked by nicole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is common to want something you can't have, and not want something you can have easily. It isn't logical or sensible, but it is true in all of us. Regardless of what is said below, men are as guilty of this as women.
2007-05-04 09:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with you is that you are shallow. You only want what you don't have and when you get it you no longer want it. That is the definition of shallow. So what? You go around leaving broken hearts everywhere. If you do that enough, you're going to end up with a reputation you don't want and you're going to be extremely lonely because of it. Find someone you have something in common with and stop chasing the "pretty boys". Stay with that person and get to really know them. When you can see their inner attraction then you've made a positive change.
2007-05-04 16:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by Alchemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very normal and nothing is wrong with you. every gal has that feeling once in their life don't worry about it. and if you really want a guy think about all the bad things about him like in his looks or his personality
2007-05-04 16:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That does sound pretty selfish and self-centered. It is about what you want. Does it not bother you to hurt those men? I would seek counseling for your problem before you ruin any more lives.
2007-05-04 16:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by united9198 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the opposite.
2007-05-04 16:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,
There are plenty more "fish in the sea." Leave him alone and go hook you another one!
2007-05-04 16:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly...last bf i had i always thought he was so cute and then when he asked me out i thought "ew is he really that cute?" grass is always greener on da other side honey...
2007-05-04 16:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by forget_me_not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your mind
2007-05-04 16:21:35 · answer #8 · answered by Soldier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple: You are a female
Females areprogrammed to want what they can't/shouldn't have, then b*tch about it when they get it.
2007-05-04 16:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
flirt!!! just have fun with him and dont worry about dating him!
2007-05-04 16:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by : ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋