me and my mom got into a argument yesterday, i kinda called her the b word and hor, and i came home today, and when i went into my room and on my bed was a short pink dress, frilly as ever, with frilly pink panties, frilly socks, and other crap, she came in and told me i will not talk to her that way ever again, told me how demeaning it is, and as punishment i will wear these things, just to give me a taste of what its like in a girl shoes? shes even started talking to me like im a little girl, instead of chris shes calling me chrissy, im so embarrassed? can she punish me this way? do i deserve it?
2007-05-04 08:40:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I don't know how old you are, but I think your mother is trying to make a point. She felt that your behavior was immature, and she wants you to dress like a little girl to show that you've acted like one. I think you are very disrespectful to call your mother what you did. If you were my daughter, the punishment would be more severe than wearing a frilly pink dress.
2007-05-04 08:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
It seems a little severe, but that was horable of you to talk to your mom that way just because you were pissed at her, she is your mom show some respect, I know this seems lame but this is the person who took care of you when you were little, the one person who will always love you the one person who you can alway count on, think about it if you were in her shoes imagine you gave birth, cared for an infant stayed up late with feedings and nightmares, illness, and always loved your child, then one day your child says those things to you, It probably broke her heart, being a mom is hard she is just trying her best to raise you to become a good adult, you should put on the dress get a good laugh at how funny you look all dolled up then go apologize to your mom, then get her a really great moms day gift, its only in a week or so
2007-05-04 08:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can understand why she is so upset but this is not a humane punishment, it borders on mental abuse. Putting you in a girls dress and talking to you like a woman will in no way help you understand what they have to go through, it will just make you resent them more. I suggest reading Schoolgirls, Young girls, self esteem and the confidece gap. It's an anthropological study into a small portion of what women have to go through and would give you some great insite and hopefully inspire some empathy. And try to give your mom some slack, she's doing the best she can, calling her names isn't going to accomplish anyting. I'm sure she's sacraficed a lot for you over the years. You need to sit down with her and sincerly apologize and try to understand where she's coming from, an open dialouge is the the first step to mending those fences. Good luck to you. Here's a link to that book, http://www.amazon.com/Schoolgirls-Young-Women-Esteem-Confidence/dp/0385425767
2007-05-04 08:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by Icarus 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, By Law She Can't Make You Wear That If Your A Male.
It's "Defamation"
I'd Need More Info For If You Deserve It Or Not, But We All Have Blow Outs Like That With Our Mothers.
2007-05-04 08:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by Incognito 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
she is your mom what gives you the right to call ger those things?you dont kinda call people those thing either you did or you didnt. and yes she can punish you that way. and i think you need a worse punishment then that. your mom needs respect. you deserve any punishment your mom gives you. i hope you learn your lesson and never say anything like that to another women as long as you live
2007-05-04 08:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Your mom can punish you whoever she sees fit and considering what you did, you got what you deserved. So, now you get to see what it's like to be girl and if you behave yourself you won't be a girl too long.
2007-05-04 21:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by J 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She sounds like a smart lady. The old addage of "walking a mile in someone else's shoes" You not only showed disrespect for an elder and a woman, the worst of all, you disprespected the woman who gave you life. Suck it up and learn from it.
2007-05-04 08:48:44 · answer #7 · answered by Debralynn 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well I bet you won't call her a b i t c h again anyway. Don't think it is a nice punishment... it's not nice at all.. but neither is calling her the b word
If she constantly humilates you, then I would be a form of abuse (humilation is not acceptable). But if this was a one time thing... I would think you deserve it
2007-05-04 08:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Good for her. No mother deserves to be disrespected by those words especially by her dumb, idiotic kid who threw a tantrum and decided to get out of hand. you should feel sorry and apologize as quick as possible and never do it again. One day you'll know what it's like to have kids who think they know everything and actually don't know sh**. You're lucky you're not my kid.!!!!
2007-05-04 08:49:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
OH HELL YES, PUT ON YOUR MOMS PANTYHOSE AND P I S S AND TAKE A GOOD HEALTHY S H I T IN THEM AND GO UP TO YOUR W H O R E MOM AND TELL HER TO LICK THE P I S S AND S H I T OUT HER PANTYHOSE
2015-08-02 08:28:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋