i have become very fond of her and she says she is very fond of me.i am going to phils in june and am considering starting o serious relationship with her.i have also been thinking of bringing her home with me she says she would like to come back with me.i have heard some horror stories of guys bringing girl home and it turning out to be not what it seems to say the least.has anyone had any personal expierience of yhis or heard anything good or bad.would appreciate advice.
2007-05-04 08:39:47 · 6 answers · asked by shake em 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ha i know a guy that's made a few trip there and almost married a girl till he foudn out she was planning on bringing her WHOLE family to live with them in the U.S. so now he foudn another girl and everything is going well, they plan to marry soon so i guess it's not all bad. good luck!
2007-05-04 08:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by forget_me_not 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you both need to pass time together, face to face. then your relationship will get stronger. i can guess that working out a long distance relationship is difficult and very expensive, time consuming, etc, but if you beleive eachother, conitnuning the relationship by visiting will support your plans. i dont know how old you are, but you know, there are lots of things to consider before moving and begining a new life together such as working conditons, life aims, habits, etc. she needs to have a job guarantee at first in my opinion. that is very important. what happens if you decide to seperate in a few months later ? if you are true lovers for eachother, meeting a few times will help to get rid of those kind of worries. i m sure if she is a honest and sincere person, she has the same worries like you. the best is to be cautious, meeting as much as possible, and talking openly to eachother about your plans and worries before taking serious decisions quickly. best wishes, i hope everythign will be fine for you and her.
2007-05-04 16:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anywhere in the world bad and good guys and girls. Nowdays internet make easier to meet both of them. You need to know her as much as you can before you going to Phillipina. (I communicated with my husband now every day by email or sometimes phone before we met, literally almost every day for almost 5 months), to know everything about us. You can tell if or when someone lie, you can see the whole picture when the answers are not consistent. I did not go to England after his first visit, so it is better for you not to promise anything until you meet her (but never send any money to her at all...if you need apply her visa in the future, do it when you are there. You can also buy her ticket from england. If she is from poor or lower income family, ask her if she comes to england with you does she need to help/support her parent (financial wise). If she from middle class /rich family, ask her if she willing to do some housework (assuming you do not have maid) as they normally has full time/part time house maid.
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2007-05-05 05:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by Lilu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard this many times, too. But I will tell you one thing. I met my fiance when I was 11, he lived in Alaska, and I in Arizona. We communicated for years, our love was insanely deep. Anyways, he came we got engaged, we loved eachother. He passed away before we got married, but our marriage would have worked out for sure. I do know the philipenes have a bad rep for living standards, and would completely understand why, if one of you is to move, it would be her. But be sure to know first. See her a while, maybe a month, then come back, talk a while, then see her again, if both times go well damnit, love surpasses all mileage!!!
2007-05-04 15:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny A 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont bring her home with you- why not tell her you will stay THERE with her, and see how long the relationship lasts after that
2007-05-04 15:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a filipino
my husband is british
he went to philippines to marry me.
we are in uk now and very happy.
2007-05-04 15:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋