My boyfriend is 24 and has never had sex. I have. I really like him a lot and sometimes I want to with him but I worry that he might not want to. He isn't saving himself until he is married, it just worked out that he is still a virgin. Any advice or suggestions?
2007-05-04 08:34:15 · 9 answers · asked by zildjian908 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, this is a great question! If he's a virgin at 24 but isn't waiting for marriage, chances are very high that he wants to have sex. Wait, scrap that. He definitely wants to have sex. And, in seeing that you're his girlfriend, he definitely wants to have sex with you. The problem is that you've had sex before and he hasn't, so I'm sure he's concerned about performance. Realize that his biggest fear is that you two will have sex and that you'll be like, "hmmm...that wasn't as good as the last guy I had sex with, but it was pretty good for a first-timer."
Casually let him know sometime that you don't care he's a virgin, in fact, let him know you think it's sexy. And then, some night you're out, wear that outfit you know is irresistable. He'll be putty in your hands. He'll probably be super nervous too, but just take control the first couple times, be vocal, and let him know that you're enjoying yourself (there will be time later to discuss ways to improve). Good luck, and have fun!
2007-05-04 08:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by dallas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would most def make him a man. Taking a guys virginity isn't deflowering.....thats a term for taking a girls virginity. Here is a idea. Give him a full body massage and hope things work out for the best. Probably only be like 25 seconds tho.
2007-05-04 08:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by C. Hodgins B*tches Part 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm trying to work out what your dilemma is - are you afraid of getting rejected if you ask him to have sex with you and he turns you down? If so, I would bring up your desires with him and see how he responds. I think you'll find that most guys would want to have sex so the odds are in your favour. If he doesn't want to, then that would be a good chance to find out how he views sex and whether there is any special reason he is saying no.
2007-05-04 08:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by chewtheredpill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try coming on to him...if he goes on and doesn't mind. If he stops you then he's probably not ready. That's the most likely way to ask him unless you want to ask him directly. Just try a little further with him and see how he reacts. That'll usually tell you what you need to know. If he's shy...take it slower. Hope this helps,
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2007-05-04 08:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by Veronica K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude bang him like now! dont even finish reading this just go do it!, im 21 and if i never had sex id prolly kill myself. no but seriously thats crazy, im glad hes not my friend cause i probably would never stop ripping on him. lol. good luck
2007-05-04 08:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do everything else with him first and get him excited and then I am sure he will want you as just a natural order of things... take your time and both of you will enjoy it ... im sure it will be awesome
2007-05-04 08:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by ridelightoff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. I'm 24 and wouldn't be too happy if i hadn't had sex. Do it!!!
2007-05-04 08:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by Scottie"T" 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it! seduce him with your feminine charm, it's not that hard, i suggest low-cut shirts and taking HIM out to a place he likes.
maybe something happened to his balls or he's self-conscious about being nakie?
2007-05-04 08:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by robyoung3484 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you waiting for? If he's normal he'll want to. Trust me!
2007-05-04 09:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋