i texted him and told him tht he lied to me he called and asked about what? he already knew that he had lied n said that this number that was in his dailed log on his cell was a guy when it was a *****. any ways he was like i know i was wrong i love u i wanna be with u and nobody else. then he called back like 10 minx later n said u aint gotta pick me up from work i aint coming home. so he didn't get here 2 like 9:30 this morning when he usually gets here around 5:35. . . . What in the hell is going on?!!!!!?
2007-05-04 07:34:45 · 27 answers · asked by Alyssa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow he went and did that s*hit right after you confronted him damn girl you need to get rid of him and find yourself a real man that is just crazy and you deserve way better than that what he did was basically taunting it right in front of your face and that s*hit isnt cool at all and no women deserves to be put through that so get rid of him and move on
2007-05-04 07:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably mad for getting caught and that you called him on it. How dare you be mad at him for being a lying cheat.
My guess he got pissed and decided to try and be a "man". I'll almost guarantee that he went to the other chick and is trying to establish whatever dominance he thinks that he has in the relationship. Though he should realize that a move like that probably just cost him...big time.
You have two choices. Either kick him to the curb or be mad for a little and then forgive him (which tells him that he behavior was OK and guarantees he will do it again).
Hard choice. Walk on him or get walked on. Good Luck!
2007-05-04 14:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by ~*~BelAnge~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he explain where he was until 9:30? It sure sounds like he's up to no good. Can you call this girl's number and talk to her and see if you can find out more information about their relationship? Maybe she doesn't even know that he has a girlfriend and she'd be mad to find out.
2007-05-04 14:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could only be one of two things. He either didn't want to continue arguing, OR he really is up to no good! Playing games and lies aren't a good start to a long-term relationship, cut your losses now, or plan on having more arguments.
2007-05-04 14:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he got caught in his cheating lie and instead of facing you he went to her instead. I think you need to have a talk with him to find out if being in a relationship with him is still what you both want. You obviously do not trust him to begin with if you are checking his phone. So there is a trust issue. I really don't think it is worth being in a relationship when there is no trust. There is someone better out there for you.
2007-05-04 14:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is being a man, a man that u dont have to be with. if u think he is cheating than dont hang around it will only cause u stress and drama and u know u dont need it. and if u want to know u need to lay down the law if he is just being stupid let him know how u feel.
2007-05-04 14:41:28 · answer #6 · answered by indi9891 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this but it sounds like he may be creeping with someone. ALWAYS TRUST YOUR INSTINCT GIRL! If you think he's up to no good than more than likey he is. Us women have a very strong intution, use it and deal with that man appropiately.
2007-05-04 14:40:55 · answer #7 · answered by Bee Biscuits 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's cheating on you... dump him... too many other men in the world to have to put up with someone disrespecting you and loving only you. Move on to better things.
2007-05-04 14:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably a red flag unfortunately. What did he tell you? Did he make up an excuse and try and play it off? Ugh men!!
2007-05-04 14:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Em to be 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HES CHEATING! i have no doubt in my mind and i dotn even know you, if your living with your b/f they should always come home, he spent the night with a nother girl probibly the the number you found
2007-05-04 14:40:04 · answer #10 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋