i decided to stop but every time am out with ma friend am doing it again !!! and she doesnt stop me , although i told her to , she enjoy gettin drunk , i do too , but i dont wanna do this anymore , what should i do ???
2007-05-04 04:54:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Food & Drink ➔ Other - Food & Drink
Find a new friend that can support you. If your friend is looking out for her best interest and neglecting your needs and safety, then do you really want her as a friend?
Drinking and smoking isn't a healthy lifestyle, and you should try to limit it.
However you can't expect people to change because you want to change things in your life, so if she can't be supportive you need to get another friend.
Have you tried talking to her? Tell her what your feeling, and that you don't think you can hang out as much if she can't support you.
2007-05-04 05:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by Lenka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Associate with the people that are living in the way that you want to be. That's not always easy, I know. Also, have you told your friend how you are trying to change? Offer alternatives ideas to a night of drinking.. like movies, bowling, taking a dance class.. etc.
Good Luck
2007-05-04 20:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you talk to a family who's family member was killed by a drunk driver. Or a family who lost someone to lung cancer. Sound drastic? Sure, but if you can't control your own urges, maybe you need a dose of reality.
2007-05-04 13:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by 2Beagles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do, and you asked, is go back to school and learn proper grammar. I swear this will make you a more educated woman and soon you'll have more important things in your life. You asked, I answered.
2007-05-04 12:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**find a new set of friends
**find new hobbies and activities to keep you busy rather than going to bars/partying
2007-05-04 11:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by Sugar Pie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was a real friend she'd support you and help you
2007-05-04 12:01:05 · answer #6 · answered by snowman_80 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get new friends
2007-05-04 11:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by Georgia Peach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋