ok.. understand the situation.. ma ex is goin out wid ma best frend.. he was sweet enough 2 drop by ma house and give me a letter which informed it all... i dunno whether 2b rude wid him or no...!!!!
{we both broke up 1 year back}.... ma best frend was da one hu asked him out..!! alll da info is der.. pls all experianced ppl let me know how 2 act in this situation i have cried enough already i m really hurt.. i lv him a lot..(i even wrote a poem on him) but i don wanna go crazy.. just tell me how 2 behave? react?
2007-05-04 02:26:07 · 17 answers · asked by weirdo!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU are YOUR OWN WOMAN
What do you need either of them for
Go be proud of yourelf and out from under this sea of miserable thinking
Its the weekend
go have fun with OTHER friends!!!
2007-05-04 02:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to u is carry on with your life. He has moved ahead and u have broken up a year ago. If u really love him why did u not try ad sort out the differences between both of u. and now when your best friend is going out u r feeling bad about it. Just be cool and treat him like any other friend as for your best friend she was kind to inform u that she is going out with your ex so that u should not feel hurt or bad. Behave normally and wish them all the best. and u carry on with your life u will meet someone better and nice.
2007-05-04 09:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by paradisegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i know it is not easy 4 u, but they a not cheating u because u said you broke up with ur ex. Your ex can see anyone now. Try to accept and carry on with your life u will find someone who loves u. U can tell your friend you a not happy about the situation and avoid being with them when they are together until u get used to the situation.
2007-05-04 09:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by Maphondo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For whatever reasons you broke up with your ex, it happened.
You need to grieve the break-up, talk about it, feel the loss, and cry. It will give you a lot of relief! I think you have done it, by now. If not, do it quickly.
But now it is time to move on..........
Unfortunately, he is complicating matters by now going with your BEST friend! Now you must tell him clearly , but without emotional outbursts) :" Look, WHY are you hurting me more?
Please leave me in peace. I hope you respect my peace, happiness, and privacy just AS MUCH as I wish for you!
Now DO NOT come around and keep telling me all that is going on between you and my best friend.
Please respect my feelings. Knowing what a decent fellow you are, I am sure you will respect my sentiments.
Please leave me alone, and don't give me ANY information about you both. Good bye. I wish you well. "
2007-05-04 09:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by thegentle Indian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your friend should have asked you if it okay, because that can totally ruin a relationship, how did she know you don't have feelings for him. In my opinion, your friend need to be more considerate to you. Also, don't be upset to him. He obviously cared enough to inform you, which is more than I can say about your "friend"! Don't be rude, just try to be cool. For all you know their relationship won't lat. Really I would be happy if my ex. told me anything.
2007-05-04 09:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by realgood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show by ur looks to her that she is a loser and she had lost u very big loss in her life
and laugh a lot try to show her that u r without her
but remain calm show ur attitude dont be rude
2007-05-04 13:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by AaSHEK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is your ex ---- you broke up a year ago --- if you wanted to get back with him why didnt you try before this???
why did you break up -- it must have been him if you still love him ---- so why do you think he would want to get back together????
im sorry you just need to move on --- he is not interested in you anymore and you truly need to get over him ---- best wishes
2007-05-04 09:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be reasonable. If she was truely your best friend, she wouldnt have went out with your ex no would she? so dont trust her like that anymore. and forget about him too. If he really loved you than he wouldnt have dated your best friend
2007-05-04 09:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by vbolden88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can be sad, i know i would be..
but.... never let a chick come between you and your mate.
ummm....i guess your mate doesn't think that way.....so yeah.....i'd be pretty mad with your so called friend. especially when he can't even tell you to your face
2007-05-04 09:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by Dylangirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiiiiiiiii..........
listen what Ur heart is telling u don't depend on others some decision have to be taken by self ....so all the best
2007-05-04 09:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by friend4all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋