fat girls...?

Question

so i was talkin to my friend about guys having one track minds and only being after one thing, and her bloke said that guys assume that they can get with fat girl cos they're so desperate they'll take anything

is her being cynical or do peeps think that's right?

before anyone thigks i'm being offensive, we were havin this conversation cos i always attract men after one thing and i'm a curcy girly

to clarify for whoever didnt understand - do guys pull fat girls assumin they're an easy lay just cos they're fat?

ladies fav.. if your mate was such a stud hun, he wouldnt have to pull desperate girls

Answer 1

I think a lot of guys say that to each other but it’s mostly just bravado. To be honest I like bigger girls sexually as it feels so much better than a skinny girl. There is a stigma associated with it though – purely based on what your friend said. A lot of people look at it like you’re only after one thing if the girl you’re with is quite a big girl. That's no different to being with a girl with a large chest or someone with a ton of money in the bank. Only time will tell with any relationship.

P.S. If you're not happy with it yourself then do something about it or you won't be comfortable being you. Otherwise just carry on being you which I'm sure is just fine.

Answer 2

yes and no - there are fat girls - just as there are skinny girls out there who will jump into bed with a guy just for the sake of it!
Unfortuntely I think it is true that a lot of the larger ladies - who may not get the attention from guys that a thinner girl would - might be flattered by any attention a guy might give them - for example if you ever look at a guy in a club - Ive noticed male friends of mine do it - at the start of the night they try the supermodels type ladies - but as the night progresses they start lowering their standards and often when it comes to the last half hour before the club closes they do start targeting the heavier- or less attractive girls.
I do find it sad that these women often allow themselves to be used by men in this way.
xx

Answer 3

i think men are attracted to curvy women, when i was young about 16 i was a size 12 or 14 and i used to be chatted up now at 22iam a size 8 and ever1 call me 13

Answer 4

For shallow selfless mindless people then yes this is true, I use to be a big girl when i met my partner who is good looking slim and sexy, i use to hear comments being made about what he was doing with me and not with someone who would LOOK GOOD on his arm. He just told them that he loved me for who I am and was happy with the way i looked.

However i have now lost alot of weight, (for myself nobody else) and i feel more happier and confident in myself, but my partner says that he loves me thin of fat. grey or blonde, stressed or happy, its just kids that think yeah pull her shes fat shes up for it. Have you never listened to these girls??

Sorry i am not getting at you at all it hurts to think that people think like that!!

Answer 5

That's not entirely true - you can get any size of girl easily provided she's desperate or screwed up enough - she doesn't have to be fat! Besides I like curvier girls they always have a far better personality - ever heard your male friends say they wish they could meet a pretty girl with a fat girls personality - it's so true!

Answer 6

well its a double edged sword this one cause most men would love to parade around a skinny stick as a G/F to show that there have what it takes to be a MAN but in truth men like women with curves there is nothing worse than cuddleing up to a shinny women and cuddling bones neven mind the passion part where its more bone on bone than bone on women

and as a man i like curvy women as there real women who you can take out and they will eat more than dust

Answer 7

Most men like big or curvy girls in bed but a skinny one to show off. not me although ;-)

Answer 8

Im a dude and bois do talk bout dat dey say its easy to get some from a thick gurl. Well F#@K dem dudes cuz my girl bigga den me and I love her for who she is . She weigh ova 200 is all Im sayin and I way 135 but loves love so F with that ya heard

Answer 9

Confucious say advantage of one track mind mean able to turn it over and play it backwards.

Answer 10

first of all that is a real messed up thing to say. My best friend is a "big" girl and she get mo dudes hollerin at her than I do. She is one of my most gorgeous friends and she has a lot going for her. So, which ever one of yo friends said that is an asshole!