2007-05-04 00:28:38 · 9 answers · asked by bumoh_123 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
How to start conversation in an appropriate way?
It's really very simple. Just go strike up a conversation with her. You probably know something that the two of you already have in common, so go talk to her about that.
That is assuming you two already know each other a little and aren't complete strangers.
If you are, then I would suggest a simple introduction at first.
Then you can follow that up with a few casual flirt smiles; and then go strike up that conversion with her. Simply put, the worst thing that can happen is she'll kind of just ignore you and you'll find that she wasn't worth dating in the first place.
On the other hand, the best that can happen...
Well, that's an entirely different subject...
and in a good way.
So in other words, you've got nothing to loose and everything to gain. So just go for it.
When talking to her, don't worry about making any kind of impression. Don't try to think of what you'll say before you say it. Just be you 100% and if that’s what she likes, then you'll get that date.
Steps to staring a conversation from the ground: top
First,
1. Take the initiative.
For instance, don't wait for someone to start talking to you, introduce yourself.
People are usually relieved when you take the initiative. In those rare cases when they are not pleased, you know you did your best to be friendly, so the problem must be with them.
Either way, you avoid feeling shy because you are doing something, and focusing on something outside yourself.
2. Second, focus on the situation around you
You have to give up worrying about what impression you are making. You will create a much better impression by being engaged than by saying something clever. If you have to start talking on a new topic, talk about something about the immediate situation.
Try to make it positive.
If you speak in negative terms, people you do not know will tend to worry that you will be talking negatively about them next.
2. Here are some good ideas "how" to start:
- Ask for activities (such as dancing or roller coaster rides) where you'll have mandatory physical contact (in a natural way, without having to think about it first)
- Start with momentary incidental contact, like a touch on the shoulder or arm.
- start with easy things. That doesn't mean too much for you, so you'll communicate easier.
2007-05-04 00:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by One Knowing The Truth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start with a smile :)
Get to really know her and establish a friendship next. It's easy to admire people from afar. The real goal is to get to know them at a deeper level. Sometimes people only appear as quality people from afar.
Don't tell her how much you admire her up front - it may creep her out and women don't take compliments well too early in the game. It hands them the power and control card too early. Women like a confident man who leads them. Some won't admit it but most do.
2007-05-04 08:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by extraordinareality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a warm handshake, look her into her eyes (do not blink) and smile...be polite with her coz bad mannerism will surely turn off anybody...go find every opportunity that you can to start a conversation with her...just be confident of yourself and tell her (don't stammer) that you admire her...give her a stalk of rose if you want her in your life
2007-05-04 08:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by superb2dmax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 'lady'. i assume this means shes OLder than you. So you need to find something you have in common - if thats possible and go hang out with her. If its not possible then what are you trying to connect with her for>
2007-05-04 08:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want to approach her for a date? to introduce yourself? to tell her you admire her?
2007-05-04 11:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello this is MR Cash
Mr Cash just goes over to her and says "Hello im MR Cash"
Then she polietly tells me that she wants me and that I should go home with her.
The next morning she then politley tells me that she has never experienced that kind of love-making before and that she cant live without me!
Confidence my man, woman love confidence!
Thats why they are always with losers, who tell them what they want to hear.
2007-05-04 07:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by MR Cash 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"i bet you 20 bucks youre gonna say no"
the latest pickup line c/o my brother
2007-05-04 07:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by the plug is made of awesome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b u
2007-05-04 08:10:19 · answer #8 · answered by heroic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go over, be yourself, say Hi, show interest in her - this is flattering in a genuine way and will be appreciated.
2007-05-04 07:33:13 · answer #9 · answered by Laura S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋