I mean all my family and friends are Christians, and I've never actually had bad feelings about them. I also don't make generalizations about people. Yet I keep hearing people say that I hate christians. Am I confused or should people stop telling me how I feel? Does not believing what someone says without a shred of proof constitute hate?
2007-05-03 22:38:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
To correct a answerer, Christian girls put out...do they ever. Never find a bigger freak.
2007-05-03 22:46:48 · update #1
You yourself know the answer because that concerns you personally. No probalem to us. mAYBE YOU HAVE LOST YOUR LOVE TO cHRISTIANS WITHOUT DOING THINGS AGAINST YOU.
JTM
2007-05-03 22:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Not believing in anything that religion claims is in the Bible is just as bad as a one-sided belief in science. Neither science nor Scripture can give you fully complete answers. There has to be a middle ground somewhere where religion and science overlap. I feel that many Christians do not put their case too well at all. I am a christian but if there is one thing I hate is fundamentalism - which is a literal belief in the words of Scripture without any attempt at uncovering its many layers. So I guess that you have similar feelings like me - and unlike you I am a christian - who does not like ( hate is not the word) a certain way many Christians express their belief. I have a high regard for science and also have a place and high regard for my religious beliefs, and Spiritual awakening.
We aught to express our opinions without acrimony. We can at least agree to differ and still live at peace with one another & without blatantly insulting each other.
All we can do is follow our hearts and hope that at some point the streams that carry our mind and emotions end up in the ocean of knowing.
I will be more worried if I did'nt sincerly follow my heart than what people said about me.
Peace
2007-05-04 07:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by ziffa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a difference of opinion does not imply hate. It could be the way you respond to people who you disagree with that implies hate. If you change your phraseology in the way you respond it may make a difference or it may not but what the heck it won't hurt to try. No matter who you disagree with it is always better to be tactful in your response. Listen to what they are saying then respond. If you are aggressive in your response it will turn people off and they will not hear your point of view. Example: I don't care what you say I will not change my mind. You don't know what you are talking about. Your reasoning makes no sense. What are you stupid or something. Better response : I hear what you are saying and I appreciate your point of view but I still disagree with you. Ask questions that invite discussion not threatening their view. How did you make up your mind on this? What proof do you have that gave you this opinion? Now this is what I think (then give your view and why without belittling their choice). If they belittle or challenge your view simply say I am open to new information that could be useful so let me know when you have some, then change the subject.
2007-05-04 06:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Non-belief is just that. It doesn't have to be attached to an extreme feeling of hatred. Non-belief can be a way of love to you, even though disagreements are likely to happen with others. I believe in what I believe. In forms how I react to others, and how I look at the world. I don't expect everyone to believe the way I do, yet, I will respect them as just as much of being human as me. The issue you feel is yours, not mine to make any judgment calls. You live with your own thoughts and emotions. Just as I do.
2007-05-04 05:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you accept everything Christians say as absolute truth, without questioning it, you're a "Christian hater." We're not allowed to be skeptical, to question the validity of their book, nor point out the glaring discrepancies in religion. We're supposed to stop at "God did it," and not look for other answers. Kind of a boring, pointless way to live, if you ask me.
2007-05-04 05:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by link955 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Christians are very judgemental and set in their ways. I have been christened but I have never practised the religion. Whe I moved to Birmingham, loads of Christians preached to me saying that I need to believe in God and said I won't find happiness unless I believe in God. One of them said I was going to hell! My point was, before I go off on another tangent, don't take offence cos that's just how Christians are. If it was up to me; there wouldn't be any religions because it just seems to cause conflict.
2007-05-04 05:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're asking me about why I hate them? I thought you didn't wish to believe in fairy tales, or atleast not get them shoved down your throat.
They've reached the height of idiocy.
2007-05-04 05:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you say you dont hate us..then you dont hate us..simple as that.
and as for christian girls putting out and being freaks...i personally can say that i do not " put out nor am i a freak"
im celibate and i dont really dont care for " relations"
2007-05-04 06:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right not understanding them does not constitute hate - I get told the same. I suffer fools lightly too.
2007-05-04 05:46:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess people say that because of how you believe...
2007-05-04 06:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by -♦One-♦-Love♦- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋