How old do you have to be to get an abortion and do you have to go with a parent?

Answer 1

It depends on the laws of your state. If you don't want to keep your baby, please consider adoption. There are many people who desperately want children and can't have them.

Answer 2

It actually depends on the state. I'm not sure but some states say 16 without parental consent, but most are 18.

It appears by your ID that you are male. I'm gonna play "mom" for a minute and say: It would be a good idea to go to an adult you can trust. If its not you, then suggest that to your friend. Obviously, do take time to consider all the options open to you. Pregnancy at any age can be scary. Even more so if you didn't "mean to get pregnant". I won't tell you like some of the others who have "omg you're a bad person, how dare you think about abortion." I'm not in your shoes, so I have no rights to do that. If abortion is the route that is taken both parties need to be aware and prepared for any potential physical and emotion issues later. Its a big decision, do consider all the options. Talk to an adult that you trust. Then make the best decision for all involved, including the unborn baby.

Bright Blessing for you. )O(

Answer 3

There is no age requirment to get an abortion and you do not have to go w/ a parent. Look up the planned parenthood web site they should have all the info you need to answer your questions.
PS do not listen to all those crazy people telling you if you have an abortion or your girlfr or whoever does it will ruin your life. Its not true, I know plenty of women who had abortions when they were young and it in no way ruined thier lives. They all got to finish school, go to college and then later on when they were married they had children - and they didnt have any problems getting pregnant either.
I would seek some or better birth control though - you dont want to be in this situation again!

Answer 4

melissaw is right, abortions can be performed at any age, (assuming the female is pregnant), with or without parental consent. It's called doctor/patient confidentiality and as long as you don't live in a small southern town with only one doctor, than I'm sure you could go to a Planned Parenthood or health clinic to have the procedure performed. The world is very controversial over this view, and I know your question didn't ask for advice, but I had a very close friend who had this procedure and said it was the best decision she could have made--she was simply too young to have a child, and a close relative who had this procedure performed, and said it was the most regretful experience of her life. So just make sure that this young lady knows what she's getting into, like Are the consequences of facing the parents greater than living the rest of her life with a possible mistake? Just something to think about.

Answer 5

It depends on the state you live in. You can check with your local planned parenthood. As a mom though I would like to encourage you to explore all your options. Do not do something that you may regret later. A decison like this could cause severe emotional problems for you, and do not let anyone force you into making any decisions . Remember its your body ,your baby. If you feel you are to young to be a parent I guarentee there is a family out there that are ready and willing to give your baby an awesome home. I know this from experience. I gave a baby up for adoption when I was 18. He is 12 now and has a wonderful life. Pray about it , god answers every prayer although it is not always the answer you want.

Answer 6

If you are not 18, yes, you need a parent. The best thing to do here (if you feel you are in trouble), is to talk to a trusted adult. Your parents may be upset with you, but they love you, and want you to be safe. There are options, you can call an adoption agency and explain to them that you are pregnant, and that you are having trouble telling your folks (they have counselors that will help you with that, or may even call for you), there are other options rather than abortion. Think of the baby, and if you cannot raise the baby, there are plenty of anxiously waiting adoptive parents out there who would cherish and relish in being a parent to that child.

Answer 7

I don't know about either of those, but please don't get an abortion. That is murder of an infant. The baby didn't make you pregnant, you are only pregnant because of your decisions. There is a waiting list years long for adopting a baby, so if you don't want your baby, some couple that want a baby but can't have one would be more than delighted to adopt him or her. One fact remains. Many women who get abortions regret it for years afterwards, maybe even the rest of their life. So please have your baby and put him or her up for adoption. The remembering that you made the right choice will affect you positively for the rest of your life. Remember, your mom may have considered doing that to you. Of all the helpless babies murdered by abortion, some of them may have been great leaders, scientists, philosophers. All of those great people murdered by their own mother.

Answer 8

It depends on your state's laws. You can find them doing a Yahoo search.

And as an infertile mother via adoption, I am telling you it is NOT your responsibility to have a baby for infertile couples or even think about anyone else while making your decisions. Adoption is only an alternative to parenting, not to pregnancy. It can be a wonderful choice, but is not without drawbacks and should be carefully considered.

Please try to talk to your parents, and if that's not possible speak to a counselor if you need help. I agree with the PP that a trusted adult will be invaluable to you.

Answer 9

You can have an abortion at any age, and no you do not need a parents consent. You are entitled to patient confidentiality that means that it is against the law for a doctor to tell your parents without your permission. But if you are really young and pregnant, you should tell an adult you trust, so they can help you with your decision, and to find a good doctor and clinic. Good luck

Answer 10

If she is under 18 then yes, a parent must be present.

Please think about all of the couples out there desperately trying to get pregnant, but can't. It may seem like an impossible situation now, but trust me once that little one is here it is AMAZING!!! having the baby might not be the best choice for her now, so what about the other A word... ADOPTION!!!

Answer 11

Please don't do that! There are so many women out there who can't have kids who would be willing to adopt your baby... don't kill it! Its not the baby's fault you got pregnant... please please please consider adoption! & I'll bet if you tell your parents, they would be willing to take care of the baby or help you take care of the baby... I'm sure they'd rather not have their grandbaby killed... please don't do it! Just think if your mother had thought about getting one with you.....and went through with it!! you wouldn't be here!!! Do you really want that for a helpless little baby... Please give it a chance at life!! Please! Please ask your parents for help with this I know they will help you... don't get an abortion... good luck and I hope you make the right decision...

ps if you do get an abortion, you will go through your whole life regretting it... you'll always be thinking what might have been... trust me my friends mom knows all about regretting an abortion... my friend got pregnant at 15 and wanted to do that, but finally told her mom about bein pregnant and her mom begged her not to that she'd take care of the baby because she had an abortion long ago and regrets it every day!