ohk so hes nice cute[hott] and he has a great personality!im scared of rejection.im very self concious and care what others think about me...i think he likes someone else...but im not sure...how do i find out? i dont really like talking to people who might reject me or sumthing but im very shy and i dont really like to talk its akward...theres not really i CAN talk about with guys...no im not going lesbo either!help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-03 16:01:06 · 14 answers · asked by Elle A. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Fair heart ne'er won fair lover."
I was scared of rejection and I waited too long and lost the girl I loved to someone else (who later beat her).
Rejection is part of life and a life lived in fear is a life half lived.
How many more moronic cliches must I hurl at you.
GET IN THERE AND TALK TO HIM!
2007-05-03 16:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to talk to him and find out. but you have to spend enough time with him for him to realize why he should have an interest. unless youre hotter than the other chick, you cant just come out and be all 'whats up? what you think?' and expect for a positive decision with no effort. of course there's the concept of expending emotional energy and time only to have it end up not happening, but those risks have to be taken. i know what you mean though, because im the same way, but the protectiveness can leave you lonely. also something to consider, the longer you go single (and im not talking days, weeks, months) the more your thoughts of an ideal mate solidify, leaving it very difficult fit someone in that mold. as my friend would say, you have to 'cut some teeth.' in other words, get out there!
2007-05-03 16:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by John D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a breath. What do you want to talk about with guys? Give it a try. It isn't like they will not talk back, and at least if you just start to make friends with them then you can see where it goes from there.
2007-05-03 16:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by Michael M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so quite guy2 replaced into fairly your rebound guy in basic terms. Thats no longer effective to handle somebody who replaced into there beside you whenever you're harm or in hassle. You broke up with guy1 because of the fact of stuff that went incorrect and getting back with him wont assure that those stuff wont happen back. you're able to desire to weigh on who's well worth greater, the guy who replaced into there for you continuously or the guy who needs you back after issues went incorrect?
2017-01-09 10:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That lesbo comment was so random. Anyways you are probably gonna have to ask him directly or get a friend to ask about you. If not then you are wasting your time.
2007-05-03 16:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by `L ネルソン 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Befriend him in the most casual way first. Other things can come later.
2007-05-03 16:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say what you feel. The worse thing he can say is no. Lovin' might be a mistake, but it's worth makin'!
2007-05-03 16:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK WELL I AM A GIRL AND I HAVE BEEN THERE TRUST ME AND I JUST FINALLY WENT UP TO HIM AND TALKED TO HIM AND THEN AFTER LIKE A WEEK I TOLD HIM HOW I FELT AND NOW WE ARE DATING .SEE MY SAYING IS HOW DO YOU NOW UNLESS YOU TRY I HOPE I HELPED FEEL FREE TO EMAIL ME I AM WILLING TO TALK
2007-05-03 16:06:31 · answer #8 · answered by Denazzys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better so some spy stuff on him.....tell a friend to see if he's after someone
2007-05-03 16:04:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing to say and one thing only
LIfe isn't worth living unless you grab it with your hands
2007-05-03 16:04:41 · answer #10 · answered by RockerChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋