i seriously think i love him........im in love! i really am! ive never felt like this before about anyone! i know i always say that but seriously its different! hes so smart and intellectual and sensitive and amazing and funny and he doesnt care what other people think and hes so not superficial and hes so kickback and cool and he makes me think about things and he makes me rethink everything i know...... i am in love. i love him and he said he loves me (it might have a been a joke but who cares lol) he thinks im smart and pretty and funny and we read the same books and we watch the same movies and we can talk about everything and he calls me his best friend and i can tell him anything and he makes me feel safe and secure and i seriously think about him all the time......i love him. im in love. i cant stop smiling. today i got in trouble and i was smiling the whole time. we talked for like an hour today at free period again. he came and sat next to me and we joked and laughed and cried (well i did) and we were talking and we have like these little 5 second pauses where we just stop talking and we look at each other.....and i was looking in to his eyes and i FELT something....like i litterally felt there were sparks coming out of his eyes and we were just there and everything and everyone melted away and i could feel like the electric energy between us...........................it was so amazing and we were talking and he just like went and touched me ear and was like touching and stroking it the whole time when we were talking.....ppl were like "r u guys going out?" cuz we were sitting in the corner really close just talkin with him like touching my ear.....he's so niice and tender when he touches me....like he doesnt want to hurt me or anything....and he has such a voice and such an energy and those EYES.....i can feel the chemistry betrween us. and the reason i cried is cuz i was like
"marco i started thinking last night about how my life would be if i hadnt met you." he was like "really?" i was like "ya" and then i started tearing up and a tear fell and he wiped it with his finger and he was like "aww baby come here." and he hugged me........hes so amazing.......
i love him.
2007-05-03 15:31:46 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he knows i love him but he doesnt want to be my boyfriend. why?
2007-05-03 15:32:15 · update #1
Oh girl... welcome to the world of women who know how to love. Or at least, I'll take your word that you love him.
I'm sorry that he wasn't the right one for you. But it was extremely brave to ask him to be your boyfriend. The bottom line, however, is that he doesn't want to be your boyfriend for whatever reason. I don't know why--I'm not a mindreader. It could be that he doesn't want a girlfriend, or he feels you don't share the same interests as he does.
Hm... the solution here would be to move on. It might take time, but that is the ultimate solution.
If it helps you to find closure, you should casually ask him why he doesn't want to be your boyfriend. Usually, that is the case when one person's feelings are unrequited, or not returned.
I'm sorry *hug* but someday, you'll find someone who will return those beautiful feelings. Keep your chin up! I've been through similar situations. Your heart hurts a lot at first, but eventually, you learn to move on. Somewhere out there is a great guy who may be looking for someone like you! :)
2007-05-03 15:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by calamityjanedoe 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This sound like this r and b song that I can't remember the name of. Anyway, I think your right about him being scared of commitment. Because I don't think he would just break up with you for no reason. From what I'm reading it seems like its him not you. The reason he broke up with you is probably what you said,but he didn't want to get to deep. I know, it was too late. But now hes probably never going to come back, now that he knows how deep it got. That's probably why hes a man hoar now, because that doesn't take commitment. You should try to move on. It's not going to be easy, but you can't let him tear you up forever. The best of wishes! I hope I helped!
2016-05-20 00:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he's got something much more important than dating to do. It sounds like you are in high school, well some people do actually take school and studying very seriously.
2007-05-03 15:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by The Answerer 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Mabey he knows hes not ready and he might brake up with you later and he doesnt want to hurt you now. my best edvicew is go to him and ask why not cause he.s the only one who can truly answer
2007-05-03 15:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by Story teller 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!!!!!!!! everything you said. I know the feeling that's how he makes me feel. I love him so much. It feels as if you loose him you would never love again. Like he was made especially for you!!!! awwwww!!!!!!!!!! that's wondeful. Take one day at a time, never rush it. you'll mess up the groove, just let it go one day at a time. step by step. savor it! Im happy for you Hon.
2007-05-03 15:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by MaryJane 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ur so lucky to hav a frnd like him .
i think he has some particular ideas about his lover n ur not full filling his requirements.
2007-05-03 15:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by devil 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
but he also may just want to date other girls, if hes youngeR?? or because he wants one thing, thats sex.
2007-05-03 15:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe he does not love you the way you love him
2007-05-03 15:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by glowofacandle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe your too young?
2007-05-03 15:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by pandurtle 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Somebody...please...just kill me now...
2007-05-03 15:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋