I like this girl but she doesnt take me seriusly shes like one of my best female friends when i asked her out she did'nt belive that I was for real
2007-05-03 15:08:53 · 25 answers · asked by zorro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she may just be letting you down nicely
2007-05-03 15:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude...that stinks. tell her you are serious...act serious, and if she still doesnt beleive you, make sure you show her that she upset you by acting that way. ask her out by giving her a note...yes, i know it sounds cheesy, but it always works on girls, and we always think it's sweet. in the note, tell her hoe pretty you think she is, how much you want to be with her, and how you are not just joking around. hopefully then she will see that you are serious about this, and possibly rethink it. this is a tough situation, though... but have you also thought it out well? i mean, what would happen if she said yes? would your friendship change? would thinks get awkward or out of hand? these are some things to think about. i say, give her the note, and play it cool. see if she responds, and if she just wants to be friends, that's cool too. thats what its been all along, and you've enjoyed it, right? i hope i was able to help you xox
2007-05-04 15:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by Surfergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry I'm probably not much help. I guess you just need to make her realise that your serious. I know it must be hard. The best advice that I can give is that when she finally accepts that your for real about it, if she doesn't have the same feelings you do don't let it ruin your friendship. I was in this position once were one of my really close male friends told me he loved me, but I didn't feel the same way. Then when I got together with my boyfriend my friend stopped talking to me. It broke my heart. I know it must be hard but please don't let this happen to you.
Good luck xo
2007-05-03 15:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her ur serious man ..since ur friends i am sure she probably doesnt even think of u as more than a friend so talk to her and c if she feels the same or would like to try a more than friends relationship if then keep her as a friend sometimes the other person just doesnt feel the same hope this helps
2007-05-03 15:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by Lexi_Corp213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well shes so use to being your friend that its hard to make the transition from friend to girlfriend. and mayb she dosent wanna mess up ya friendship,wat if things dont work out ,you know? but if you feel like this has potentiol to be a long lasting relationship perssue it,she could just be scared
2007-05-03 15:14:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After u asked her out,tell her u really want to go on a date, and if it works then take to a really nice place.Then she will take u for real
2007-05-03 15:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by jessie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have to show her that your serious.It may take a while for her to realize what is happening cause your best friends..Just give her some time, to realize that you're for real.
2007-05-03 15:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
major hit to the pride. i dontknow how.. she could have politely been turning you down.. or she is really stupid. if she is a total dunce then i would try again but if she is pretty smart i would try again when you get the courage and let her know your not kidding. the kissing hte cheek thing is a little forward
2007-05-03 15:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by lacy w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you really have feelings for her! omg i feel soo bad for you...its like...hey wanna go out with me? then..hahaha ur soo funny! its like umm right funny umm..ok. lol. Just pull her away and be like listen i really like and really want to kno if you want to go out with me. Then if she says no then just say...oh because when i asked you out befere..i wasnt kidding.. just so you kno. If she says yes, then say ok great umm see you tom. then friday at school ask her if she wants to go to the movies with you and a few friends like as a group so the first date wont be totally akward...lol...well good luck!
<3
2007-05-03 15:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by calientaXOchica<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and her were close for a while (kind of Brother and Sister) I wouldn't attempt anything, but if you are friends just tell her you are for real.
2007-05-03 15:12:18 · answer #10 · answered by buddhalady05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww its really hard when things like that happen. just try to stay close with her and act serious around her. ive had the same thing happen to me before, it sucks. maybe she just sees you as a friend, and that isnt a bad thing.
2007-05-03 15:13:35 · answer #11 · answered by HEYYYYOU 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋