We were friends for about 4 months before we decieded to date. We have been dating for almost 2 months. But he considers us still friends. But we do everything that couples do.
2007-05-03 14:01:26 · 9 answers · asked by frump 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
EVERYTHING that couples do? As in, are you sleeping together?
If you are having sex with him and he says that you're 'just friends'....I fear you might just be a f*ck buddy.
Talk to him, and if you guys see your relationship headed different directions, get out before you get TOO emotionally involved!
2007-05-03 14:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by jezyka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea how old you are but you sound very, very young. It scares me a little to read, "But we do everything that couples do."
I don't know if this is your situation but as I read that, it means you are having sex. Commitment takes lots of time. It is far more than dating and much more than friends. If sex enters this mixture too soon then you are headed for disaster!
If you are "still friends" and not acting out sexually, then stay friends. Sex will spoil the whole future relationship. It can be almost like a drug that blinds you to the faults and failings you both (all people too) have and will not allow you to really develop a loving relationship built on truly knowing and loving each other with all your faults and failings.
Be careful! Be very careful! The best of relationship is like fine wine...they come with age and maturity.
I wish you both the very best.
Jim
2007-05-03 14:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by jimmaresa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you two have been dating for two months as a serious couple. I'd give it 4 more months. 6 to 7 months is plenty of time to decide if you want to be exclusive with somebody. If he's not ready after that, then move on. Don't waste time being a casual thing to him. Good Luck.
2007-05-03 14:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say but i feel the same as jezyka. earlier on i read that men actually want friends with benefits without commitment. How selfish is that. Why don't they just go get a hooker, at least they benefit mutually and with consent instead of playing with people's feelings.
2007-05-03 14:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by Raven Hood® 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You make a commitment to someone whenever you feel ready to do so, however you should be sure that the other person is on the same page as you are. It isn't a good idea to commit to someone who isn't ready to commit to you. It would be wise to sit down and discuss your relationship when you feel ready to take that step towards commitment.
2007-05-03 14:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by babygirla718 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pushing for a commitment after 2 months is a sign of desperation . .unless you have one foot on the grave and the other one on a banana peel - what's the rush ?
2007-05-03 14:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by missmayzie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Zen is right. Talk to him. If by you do everything couples do, you mean "everything". Then he has no reason to be in a relationship, unless you get a few things established.
2007-05-03 14:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by Bliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tlk to him about it, nobody really knows how long it takes till some one make a commitment.
2007-05-03 14:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him
2007-05-03 14:03:41 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋