I have a crush on this girl ive been working with for about a year. we talk almost everyday and find myself forever thinking about her. The more i get to know her the more interested i get, im not 100% sure if she has a boyfriend or not because i never heard her talk about doing anything with him or anyone in general. so i decided to ask her one night after work to do something and she gave me her cell number. so i called and talked to her about going out to the movies she told me she had a boyfriend. its been a few weeks since then but im still kind of confused as to how she thinks of me, i mean i want to see if she likes me that way but i dont want to make it ackward between us at work? so im not sure what i should do, plz help.
2007-05-03 13:50:17 · 7 answers · asked by viper4215 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were you, I would just leave it alone and move on. More importantly do not date anybody from your work. I was in a similar situation such as yourself. There was a really good friend of my mine at my workplace. I knew her for about a year, one day she showed a lot of interest in me, for no apparent reason. From that day on I used flirt with her a lot, kiss her everytime I saw her. It got to the point where I would always think of her. One day I decided to ask her out, she accepts. We had a little misunderstanding and it went downhill from there. The point being, never go out with anybody from your workplace or you'll end up miserable like me, mostly because I have to see this person everyday. So just go on with your life and find someone better.....outside of work. It's like the sayings go. Keep your personal business at home and your job related business at work. Also don't crap where you eat....or work for that matter. Good luck.
2007-05-03 14:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by rrk33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! that is confusing! she is giving you so many messages. There are many possibilities...
A. she likes you, but when you called her, her bf was around so she cant make a date w/ her man around, duh.
B. she was into you then she changed her mind and made up a bf
C. she is mental
you could ask her friends if she has a bf. other than that, i suggest that u forget about this girl before u get any more confused.
much love!
2007-05-03 13:57:31 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you totally did all you could. good try buddy. you should stay friends and play it cool, the girl is probably flattered, she will still talk to you... just dont go into work thinking that it will be akward...
2007-05-03 13:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel yeah i know wat u mean but da guy i like i see him at school every day but well does she flirt wit u or something if she does ask her if she thinks that anything can ever happen between yall 2 or sumin but if she says no but still flirts wit u den she probly not good for u cuz if she does diz 2 her current bf wat do u think she gonna do 2 u?
2007-05-03 13:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by muhmainlife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and ask her her about it
2007-05-03 13:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over her and move on
2007-05-03 13:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by mommie_29801 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to tell you this but
"FOLLOW YOUR HEART"
2007-05-03 13:53:16 · answer #7 · answered by roubnidesmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋