I wrote this girl a note telling her I liked her ,and she loved it and we talked more then ever! We were never offical but when people would ask her if we were bf and gf she'd say no but we're talking! Things were great! We'd talk late til night everything was groovy! Until one day, ohhhh God this dreadful day! It was a Tuesday, I asked her in a note if she wanted to take it slow, she responded, "No I can't, I'm really busy, and my parents. But we can still be friends" I'm like "Bull crap! Your letting me down easy" She's all like "No I really do like you, your fun and nice. But we can only be friends" Why did she wait so long to tell me?
Well since she told me that I haven't been talking to her that much, I'm popular at school but I only have 2 real friends, and I'm not in relationships often because of all of its drama.
This girl means a lot to me but I don't think it'll ever be the same. How can I get it back to how it was? Before I told her I wanna take it slow, we've been weird.
2007-05-03 13:42:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont not talk 2 her that is so stupid shes gonna label u as a jerk for the rest of her life if u really like her dont do that
also it may be her parents they may not want her going out with someone now my mother is the same way and she actually wanted me 2 break up with him (i didnt though) so dont be a jerk- talk 2 her be her friend an when she leaves the clutches of her parents then she will love u 4 stickin wit her
2007-05-03 13:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by mdmel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Max, you sound like a nice guy, and I don't know why she waited so long to tell you. Perhaps as she got to know you more she decided you weren't her type after all. Perhaps her parents don't allow her to date. In any case..... every thing you say changes everything that happens from there on... once its out there you cant un-say it. All you can do is to continue to enjoy her friendship if this is what she is offering, and you can accept this. Good luck.
2007-05-03 20:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright.
buddy have you seen "just friends"?
i believe you are in the same situation,
you my friend are stuckin the friend zone.
break out of it. buy her roses? talk nicely to her like old days. hang out with her?
uhmm.
not much i can say. just be close to her. and remind her of how beautiful she is. if its not ment to work out, it wont.
you seem like a really nice guy though so im rooting for you.
2007-05-03 20:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes clearly not ready for a relationship, but she does like you. i think maybe let her grow up a little emotionally age doesnt make a diffrence and if you still like her try again. she sounds worth it.
2007-05-03 20:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her how you feel
2007-05-03 20:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to other girls - it will drive her nuts
2007-05-03 20:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋