ok im in love with my ex girlfriend... we just broke up though..
long story short... we're not over eachother, but she kinda likes someone else that she hangs out with all the time now.
i think those feelings are going to grow... the hardest thing to do is watch the person you love love someone else... that quote describes it perfectly..
how do i deal with this?
and please no answers like "get over it" or "move on"- im serious when i ask for help
2007-05-03 13:37:23 · 10 answers · asked by edger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you really want her back, you better make your move now before it's too late....
2007-05-03 13:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by ahnmsc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's already with someone else, she may have already moved on. To sit and wait for her to come back is going to be harder on you. Get involved in something else other than watching or waiting for her. Try not to just stay in this one place. Good luck.
2007-05-03 13:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by jz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, not knowing the "long story" something happened to break you up. Seriously evaluate what has to be changed to make you both happy, then pour your feelings out. she needs to hear them as much as you do.
If it doesn't work, eat a very large jug of fat free ice cream, mope a little, then go do things that take your mind off it. Go work out, sky dive, be daring and the pain will ease little by little.
2007-05-03 13:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Win her back. Talk to her and make it clear that you want her back. If she doesn't want to, that's her decision and you have to respect it. I'm not saying you'll get over her, but you have to acknowledge that what she wants isn't what want. Yeah, you'll be a bit torn up, but that's life, plain and simple.
Good luck!!!
2007-05-03 13:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by kkid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get back with her. tell her that you two breaking up was a bad idea. if she's not over you yet then just rekindle the love
2007-05-03 13:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by wintermag52 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her who she wants to be with. Tell her to choose between you and the new guy. If she chooses you then great, but if she chooses him..then wouldn't you want to move on?
2007-05-03 13:42:47 · answer #6 · answered by Virginia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her how you feel just to clear the air maybe she will come back to you but if not you are just going to have to accept it good luck just tell her how you feel its the best you can do
2007-05-03 13:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by ஐEmmaஐ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her talk to her and tell her or let her go.
If you keep bothering her your going to push her away.
2007-05-03 13:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sould just talk to her even if it is embarasing if she still dosn't want to go out with you, you will find some way to cope with it.
2007-05-03 13:43:01 · answer #9 · answered by maxwell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k well im in the same situation.
i think you should talk about it with her,
tell her how you feel and what you think.
hope i helped you,
2007-05-03 13:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by xwillxalwaysxmissxhimx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋