I dated this guy last year when me and my bf broke up, we only dated for like 1 month but then I realize I wanted to be with my bf so we got back together and are engaged now.
2007-05-03 13:32:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't do it, its tempting but will be a complete mess...
2007-05-03 13:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by gotta be Stella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the way you answer this question. Would you want your boyfriend to have lunch with a girl he dated when you broke up. I look at my marriage like this, I would never do anything to him that I wouldn't want my husband to do to me. Also don't put yourself in a position that could turn bad. Good luck
2007-05-03 13:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by Kev & Mandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are treading in bad water if you do. You were attracted to him once enough to date him, even if you were only on the rebound from your bf. I think you could become attracted again and then that will cause you conflict. If your bf finds out, he could be hurt or jealous. It's not worth it.
Take my advice and stay out of triangles. You will sleep better at night.
2007-05-03 13:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by asldfkjdfj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-09 10:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by chottu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! I made the mistake of going and hanging out every once in a while with a friend i had dated, my fiance found out about us dating before he and i were together, called off the wedding and hasn't talked to me since.
tell the guy in a nice way- no thanks- i have to be mature and respectful of my boyfriend.
would you feel comfortable if he went out with an old girlfriend for a while? just to hang out?
2007-05-03 13:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you tell your fiance in advance and get his blessing; and if you'd be willing to have your fiance come along if he so chooses.
If that's not something you'd be comfortable doing - then it obviously isn't an innocent lunch and you shouldn't be going.
2007-05-03 13:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by UNITool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being engaged is being off limits. Don't even be "friends." Your are risking far too much to take such a chance.
2007-05-03 13:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by jimmaresa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is lunch with this guy really worth it? If so, just no dessert for you!!
2007-05-03 13:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how cruel of you, just hurt some guys feelings by making him the "rebound" guy
girls like u SVCK
and yea have lunch with him...loser
2007-05-03 13:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by Wayne D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you sound tempted....I wouldn't....unless you were to hang with him around a group instead...might be more respectful to your BF...you two did break up before...trust has to be regained...good luck...
2007-05-03 13:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by Rmprrmbouncer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure but, be truthful with your boy friend
2007-05-03 13:35:31 · answer #11 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋