Would you possibly date me?

Question

Well im 18 have natural blonde hair and blue eyes, im 5 10 and im about 200lbs(i know i need to lose some weight) im smart, almost in top ten percent in my senior class, good at math, a born leader, i love children and animals, my friends say i am kind and caring, but sometimes bossy, im quite and shy when im not around friends and i think im ok/average looking, i mean i've had a couple of guys after me, but i didn't like them... so would you date me? if you could describe u a little, to see what kinds of guys you are

it is hard to get the avatar to look exactly like you, and im only asking this because i want an "outsiders" point of view

Answer 1

If we were closer to each others age (I'm 38), I wouldn't have any problem with dating you..The weight and wouldn't be a problem for me because according to experts I'm overweight too..I'm 6'2" and 220...The experts say I should be around 180.

Answer 2

Well, I have social anxiety disorder and have had depression so, yeah, I would, so long as they weren't homicidal and stuff. Some people don't need a romantic relationship, they need help first or it could make things worse, so I wouldn't date people with certain mental illnesses, though I would try to become their friend and help them out. Anger issues. Probably not, unless they weren't too bad. Like I said, I would try to help them and befriend them, not date them. Cutter? I would probably try to help them and befriend them but not date them. Ugly? I wouldn't date someone I wasn't attracted to at all. Relationships like that don't work out often. Besides, why would you want to be in a relationships where one or both people have no physical attraction to the other? *EDIT* It doesn't make you shallow to not date ugly people. It's instinct to go after people you're attracted to. Besides, someone who is ugly to you isn't always completely ugly or ugly at all to other people. Personality does matter a lot more than physical attraction but physical attraction still matters a lot. *EDIT* I don't mean I wouldn't date someone who wasn't really hot. They could be less than average, but I'd still have to be physically attracted to them enough. I'm not the most attractive person out there myself, so I don't aim for stupid things.

Answer 3

I wouldn't date you because I'm too old to date girls who are 18. If your real question is would I avoid dating you because of your weight (putting age aside) then the answer is no. Lots of guys think that larger women are attractive. I happen to like a girl with curves. Of course, that assumes that we would be compatible otherwise.

Answer 4

Mmmmm, the Way you describe yourself does'nt sound that bad. I dont think you should have to loose Weight on the Account of a Guy !!!! But that's just me because i like BBW....
on the Contrary i am way too old for you (54), so just think about what i said... dont let People put you on the Spot !!!!!!!
You're "BEAUTYFUL"

Answer 5

blond is nice
but If I were looking, I´d be looking for a fun-to-be-with kind a girl, that is important to me, so if you are fun-to-be-with, sure I would date you (and If I were 20 years younger, lol)

a tip, guys get scare with dominant women (Born leader, bossy)

Answer 6

I would not sorry. I do not date people who are heavier than me. By the way I am 180lbs and I am 17. Just because you mentioned math I have to brag I am the top student in my class 96% :P.

Answer 7

that's not enough for me to go on. the description conflicts with the avatar you chose. which based on that you look high maintence. i would have to do a case observation before making a decision like that. not to mention i'm 16 years older than you.

Answer 8

yes i wud but im 13 and i already have a gf so theres 6 years difrents and my gf is mostly like you so im dating a miny you so no point on describing myself

Answer 9

If i was a guy i wouldnt.. because your obviously too insecure if your asking this on the internet.

Answer 10

Lets see a pic.