Physcial Relationship moving too fast?

Question

So we've been "seeing" each other for about a month now, and our physcial relationship is going extremely fast, to the point where we're going to be having sex soon. Currently we've done everything but. Now my problem is I dont want it to slow down and neither does she... but we really should slow down. We're at the point where we tell each other we love one another, but the thing is she still doesnt want to commit to labeling us with the words boyfriend/girlfriend, she says every relationship shes labeled has turned out bad, and she wants this one to last a very long time. But the thing is Im worried we're going to go too far and later feel like we should have waited... but like I said we both want too, and feel ready... Now dont get me wrong we spend alot of time talking and just cuddling, and just enjoying one anothers company. Just still our physical relationship is moving fast, should we slow down? Remember im just comparing to most other couples. Or is it even a bad thing?

Answer 1

if you both agree that your both going to fast, then don't rush. and if you've only been going with a month, i doubt there is a love thing going on anyway. words are only words. it's the feeling behind those things that matter.

Answer 2

every relationship is different so if its how you feel then dont stress out --- dont worry about labels its how you feel toward each other that is important --- the only proviso i can make is to always have protected sex --- ohh and make sure you are safe and comfortable --- best wishes