Does it hurt to lose ur virginity???

Answer 1

Part of it depends on how well endowed your partner is and how active you are. It didnt hurt me, in fact I wondered what the big deal was.

forget about sex and go to college, study! Guys can wait.

Answer 2

Um..... I won't lie to u, but yes, it does hurt a little. And of course I cant speak for guys, lol. But if ur with the right person, and the time is right, then u'll forget all about that pain, believe me.
If ur really worried, try using a lubricant such as K-Y Jelly, and don't tense up, that'll just make it more painful. And it only hurts a little bit and only for a few minutes.
After that, there should be no more pain, just sheer pleasure! Lol.
Good luck.

Answer 3

Yes, it does hurt, in more ways than one.
It hurts physically for one and it hurts to know you just lost your innocence and can't ever get it back. Then you're thinking, "Is this what all the hype was about? Is this what I gave up my precious virginity for?"
Trust me, sex is worth waiting for. I think most girls wish they would have waited until they were married or at least older and more mature.
I waited until I was 18. I thought I was grown and mature enough to handle it. Emotionally I was not and I wish I had waited a lot longer than that.
Wait. You'll thank yourself later. But, if you choose not to heed the warnings, at least protect yourself. Use a condom each and every time.

Answer 4

It really depends on the person. For me, it was more uncomfortable than painful. For my sister, well, she said she didn't feel anything. *laugh* I didn't bleed at all, but I know some people do. It's not a lot, so don't panic.

The point is, it's nothing to be afraid of. When you're sure it's what you want to do, use protection, and know that it's probably not going to be mind-blowing sex or anything, but it will be something you always remember.

Good luck and be careful. :)

Answer 5

some say it does, some say it doesnt from what I heard the region you lose it in impacts it. If the guy purely rams it in it does from my adventure, if the lady is going on suitable and purely slowly lowers onto it and sit there for a lengthy time period to get used to it its no longer that undesirable. purely bypass slow on the first time, then slowly paintings it upwards. sure which ability sex isnt off the walls loopy relaxing first few circumstances yet you dont pick to spoil your self. Screwing each and each and every others brains out comes in a lengthy time period once your both smooth and characteristic explored each and each and every others bodies thoroughly

Answer 6

Yes, it can. I want to be perfectly honest, and I hope that I can tell my own daughter this some day. It hurt me the first time, and I actually bled for several days after. I was scared, and didn't tell anyone.

But, that doesn't happen to everyone. Just take care of yourself. Sex should not be painful. If it hurts, stop and slow down.

Answer 7

yes but not as much as you think. if you are stiff and tense it will hurt if you relax and go with the flow it wont hurt as bad. also you have to be well lubricated down there. the more the better. you should really wait though atleast till you meet the right person. if he(guy) sounds full of sh**, he mostly likely is.

Answer 8

God yes, my first time was awful, and i did bleed, i bled even afew times after losing my virginity.
I don't really know what there is you can do to make it hurt less, i guess i was really nervous so that probably made it worse

Answer 9

Yes. If there is not enough lubrication and if you don't slightly stretch the labia before insertion, it can hurt. The muscles are not used to that and you will be sore for a while after that as well. Sex feels better after a while.

Whenever you do feel you're ready, please use condoms each time, everytime to protect yourself from disease.
Best of luck!
Peace,
Jenn

Answer 10

The pain is there, but as long as your partner is understanding and careing, and goes slow with you, and gives you foreplay first, the pain will be far less than the pleasure.