every time i see my x boy friend we end up talking and getting back togather and every time we do he ends up breaking my heart and he says he love me but if he loves me why do he keeps cheating and hurting me
2007-05-03 12:40:21 · 14 answers · asked by Queen B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
theres a simple answer to this, he is using you, he is hurting you because he can, maybe he gets some sort of sick pleasure from it ,listen hun you have to put a stop to it or he will keep walking all over you and keep hurting you time after time, so next time he come round tell him straight fcuk offfffffff
2007-05-03 12:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by CARL P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't love you, if he does he wouldn't hurt you when you get back with him, after he cheated on me the first time I wouldn't have gotten back with him in the first place because if a guy cheats once they're more than likely going to do it again unless they're really in love with their wife or girlfriend, then he would stop, don't take him back anymore, spare yourself all the heartache, he's not worth it, you'll think I'm wrong probably right now but you'll see what I mean later on, good luck
2007-05-03 19:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is confused, but maybe he is just walking all over you , maybe he is seeing what he can get out of you, or maybe he is just an a s s. You should prouble just move on and just stay away. There for you dont keep getting hurt. Just find some one else. You will be better off.
2007-05-03 19:47:54 · answer #3 · answered by Chris F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant let him keep doing that to you...When the two of you pass by just ignor him because you dont wanna get hurt...Its NOT fun...Good Luck and Stay Strong
2007-05-03 19:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by hilaryduf87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not why is he doing this to you.. it's why do i have low self esteem and believe i do not deserve a better man in my life?
that's your question
stop blaming him
start looking in the mirror and ask yourself why would you put up with this behaviour, as it you fault if you continue and stay with him, you cannot go on to say that he is breaking your heart when you pulled the trigger, so to speak
2007-05-03 19:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being a doormat!! if he loved you, he would have realised that when he lost you, but then, he didnt really lose you did he, cos you came back to him and that in his mind made it so he lost interest. he knows he has you wrapped around his finger and that he can have you when he feels like it. please don't do this 2 urself. u are smart and intelligent. see him for the rat he is. let him go. if he was yours to begin with, he will come back to yo reformed, if he doesnt he was never yours to begin with, and i know that he has come back many times but its cos you never really let him go, did you hun
2007-05-03 19:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by DesertRose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
queen b
Lesson girl you are letting him do that to you, you allow him to enter your life over and over again....
The first time a dog bits you it's the dog fault, the second time the same dog bits you it's your fault
2007-05-03 19:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you doing this to yourself? Don't blame him, blame yourself. It is your fault for letting him back when you know deep inside he doesn't love you.
2007-05-03 19:47:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go back out with him!!.. i no you probably like him alot.. but just try really hard to get over him.. hes just a sh*t talker.. find someone else to get your mind off him
2007-05-03 19:44:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wasn't honest with you in the past. don't believe him in the future! otherwise you're doomed to repeat history once again.
2007-05-03 19:45:50 · answer #10 · answered by laxguy999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋