Okay, last night I had this totally wierd dream about my ex-fiance. The last time I had a dream about him, was a few months ago and I dreamed he was in alot of pain and I couldn't figure out why. The dream really bothered me, so I looked him up on MySpace and found out that that same night his best friend was killed in an ATV accident. Wierd right? And I swear to GOD that I am telling the truth. Anyway, the other night I dreamed that my time to be with him was running out. It wasn't so much a dream with a story line as it was a intense feeling in my sleep. It bothered me like the other one did, so once again I looked him up. HE'S GETTING MARRIED! I don't understand this at all. I am HAPPILY MARRIED to my first love and the man of my dreams. Why the heck am I having these wierd dreams? I am totally happy that he has found what he wants, and she looks like a wonderful girl. It's just really odd that I am having these psychic dreams about a man that I am no longer connected to. Any Ideas?
2007-05-03 12:34:05 · 8 answers · asked by Amanda E 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
To clarify, because some here think I am obsessing... It's not even like that. I haven't spoke to this man in three years. And at first, I did think maybe it was just coincidence, but it doesn't make sense for me to be having these intense gut feelings, I am not one that usually feels things like this. And I am not worried about my current relationship, everything is great with us. I don't love this person anymore, but I do still care, and I am scared of these dreams/feelings/whatever, because they make no sense other than I feel what is happening to him.
2007-05-03 12:54:30 · update #1
Oh honey. Those we once loved, even when we end up so angry we think we hate them, are always and forever connected to us. Scary when I think about some of my ex-boyfriends. Ugh.
We are all connected. What once seemed like a silly philosophical saying is now known to be true. Our atoms are in a constant state of flux. Atoms fly off you, on to someone else. And vice verse.
That person becomes a part of you.
The dreams don't mean you need to go run off and be with your ex. I wouldn't worry about that. You'll probably find out he and his wife to be are moving away or something.
It is perfectly ok for all four of you to be fast friends.
2007-05-03 12:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by Max Marie, OFS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL.
Youre not half as happily married as you PRETEND to be... if you were, you wouldnt be checking up on an ex-fiance obsessively.
Im not surprised youre dreaming about him - you keep thinking about him and looking at his MySpace page. Big Surprise there...
It boils down to coincidence. My best friend was out of the area because his mother was dying. Yesterday, when I got home, I picked up the phone to call him and ask how everything was going. Before I even dialed the phone, there was a knock on my door - my best friend in tears. Did I have a psychic experience? NO - it was coincidence.
Please DO NOT try and speak with him - you will open old wounds, and you might possibly ruin your own relationship, as well as his new relationship. It is time to move on girl!
2007-05-03 12:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You developed a connection with him is why. If you had sex with him you created a cord between you two. It sounds like you are just picking up his most intense emotions. It still happens with my ex husband and we've been divorced for 3 years. I also knew when he was up to no good.
2007-05-03 12:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by Janet L 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Obviously, you are still connected to him if you are having these dreams. I suggest that you talk to him. Don't tell him about your dreams, necessarily, but just talk to him. For some reason, this is happening to you. What would restoring communication bring?
2007-05-03 12:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by The Pope 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if this truly is a prophetic dream then maybe its because your the only one he knows that is sensitive enough to the spirit to hear it and to know what it means!
2007-05-03 12:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilt...maybe
2007-05-03 12:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by Afi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no prophetic anything. The future is not for-seen by any, even your god.
2007-05-03 12:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dunno, honestly. Happens to me sometimes though not with the ex. I'd rather gouge out my eyes than see anything he's doing.
2007-05-03 12:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋