i hate my brother?

Question

im 13 im playing in this football tournament for a club near where i live and we in qorter finals the match is on saturday but yesturday my little brother whos 8 messed my football kit up and now thats ruined and he stabbed my football and now it has a hole so now i can't practise because i have no ball and i can't get another kit untill the weekend on sunday because my mums working i really want to be in the team also my coach is gonna kill me if i turn up with no kit

Answer 1

Ok, so he messed up your kit. Are you going to let that stop you from practice? What about your friends, do they have a football they would let you practice with? Maybe they'd like to help you practice. Don't give up so quick. And try not to be to mad at your little bro, maybe it's his way of getting your attention. Ask him to help you practice next time, but explain to him that what he did was not acceptable and that it hurt you.

Answer 2

Ok you hate him now but you won't always. I have 5 younger brothers and 1 younger sister. He just wants to be like you, he's seen you playing with that stuff and so he is trying to also. Try paying him a little attention that's all he really wants. Now that I'm grown up I can look at this and laugh and someday you will too. I think I may have had it a little worse than you try being the only girl with 3 little brothers and then when i was 17 My mom had another when I was 20 she had my sister and when I was 23 she had my last little brother lol. So at 25 I have sibling ranging from 24 to 2! just try and take it easy on him he's little still.

Answer 3

If you honestly would like him to change, plus you honestly would like to have a great brotherly relationship with him, instead of resenting him for the wrong way he is, why not find out just why it is he is the wrong way he is. I'm sure he didn't plan on becoming a failure when he was just a kid. There are reasons behind his choices. He's out of control. By you resenting him, just keeps him further out of control and rebelling. Don't forget, as you point an acusing finger at him, there are three others pointing right back at you. He's not going to change until he has a positive reason to do so. Why not give him a postive one!?

Answer 4

Relax, its only a football. I know it seems like the end of the world, but its not. Ask around and see if you can practice with someone who has a football. Tell your coach what happened. I'm sure he will understand.

Remember that when your 90 your brother is going to be in better shape than you, and will most likely be helping to wipe your butt and give you money. Be nice to him.

Answer 5

Just tell your coach the truth. I'm sure he will understand.

Try not to hate your brother. He is probably just lonely, or jealous that you are playing football and he's not.

Sounds like he is angry and perhaps suffering from a lack of attention. Ask him why he did that.

Answer 6

your brother is 8 dude...relax and your coach will understand and i'm sure he will have another football for you. you shouldnt him because sometimes little kids do things without thinking and he is just little so give him a break.

Answer 7

He's 8 yrs old, and you hate him? You need to grow up. If your mum is in position to get you another one, you should feel blessed because there are people who cant afford ANYTHING!

Next time put your things up in a place where your little brother cant get to them, and maybe you should spend more time with him because it sounds like he is trying to get your attention. I am sure he looks up to you. You have to teach him to be better, hating him isn't the key. Try loving him, and maybe he will respect your things, and himself.

Answer 8

lock your brother in a closet

Answer 9

he should replace it