why are guys so hard to figure out?

Answer 1

Guys are hard to figure out because girls make it that way. We're still human like you ladies, we think the same, only we may not say so, or what we really want. Things such as for the girl to make the move, give flowers, little notes, or do other things girls would like. Guys aren't complex, only they keep things bottled up and need to seem manly lol.

Answer 2

I love it when women ask this! It's nice to know women aren't the only ones that are hard to figure out. The funny thing is that men AREN'T hard to figure out, it's just that we're not exactly what you want us to be, so it's hard to accept us the way we are.
That said, I'll give you a few clues about men (but I'll deny that I shared our man secret if anybody asks):
1-We seek physical interaction. No big surprise there. If we think we can get some action without having to offer an emotional commitment, we are very interested.
2-Men actually like an emotional connection. We want to have someone that loves us, but we also want validation--so if you offer love too easily, we're going to look for something more difficult. Winning the heart of a girl that wasn't interested not only gets a guy love, but it gives him the satisfaction of being a good hunter. Give us the chance to hunt you.
3-Men are simple. Try not to interpret what we say or do by what you would mean if you were to say or do the same things. Remember that we are either interested in sex or validation/conquest and then apply what we said or did and see if that helps.

Answer 3

You honestly think that guys are that hard to figure out? Well your average guy is not that hard to understand. For that type all you have to do is put out when he wants it. Do what he wants when he wants. But in his eyes its a one way street. Now for your not so average joe, thats a lil more complicate. You can tell which type is which. I really don't feel like getting more into dept here. If ya feel like just talking u can hit me up. peace.

Answer 4

LOL!!! It's easy.

Stop thinking that we are so smart and manipulative.

We don't know why we do half the things we do.

You see, you think we're smarter than we are... You think we've got some secret motive why we do things...

Nope. Mostly we're driven by hormones. Testosterone. Then of course there are the John Wayne movies that teach us that war is good and showing emotion is bad.

We're so hard to figure out because we're so screwed up... LOL.

Ok. Did that answer your question?

A~

Answer 5

that is a pretty weak question but easy to answer.. guys are not hard to "figure out" most guys have the same basic goals in life when it comes to girls and with guys you can normally tell how they feel about a girl or about a situation because unlike girls.. they will tell you

Answer 6

Having trouble are you? Here's something to think about: Guys are very simplistic. When they are happy, they are happy. When they are hungry they eat, and anything that makes them uncomfortable, anxious, or anything that isn't happy or comfortable makes them mad. They can't help it, they haven't been taught to express their feelings. If he's avoiding you, forget him. He can't figure out how to tell you that he's not into it anymore. If he's doing things like teasing/hitting you - he likes you (even if he is over 10!)

Answer 7

we are not hard to figure out. Women tend to over analyze everything. We dont give hints if we like someone, we dont give hints if we dont like someone one. If we want something in a relationship we say it. Unfortunately we are simple minded......eat, sleep, women....thats probably our brain pattern

Answer 8

They aren't hard to figure out. Women overcomplicate everything.

Answer 9

Whats to figure out ? You are female, we want sex end of discussion.

Answer 10

WELL IF YOU FIND SOMEONE YOU ARE COMPATIBLE WITH THEN IT WOULDNT BE SO HARD AND IF YOU HAVE YOURSELF FIGURED OUT THEN YOU CAN FIGURE THEM OUT TOO...IM WOKING ON THAT WITH MY BF...