oh my god. what do i do? is she gonna be a lesbian now. i went to use the restroom last night around midnight and she was sitting on the bathroom floor looking at her daddys playboy magazine. i don't know how long she was in there be i caught her. somebody please help. is she gonna turn in to a lesbian now? should i blow her daddys brains out??? what would you do?
2007-05-03 10:56:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Relax. She wouldnt understand and certainly wont remember when she is 16 unless you make a huge big deal about it.
But I would be burning the playboys and getting them out of the house. They have no place in a house where there are children. I dont think they have a place in a home where a woman is either.
It wont make her a lesbian........not that there is anything wrong with that anyway.
2007-05-03 11:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 21:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think she will turn into a lesbian - she is only 2! Don't make it out to be a major issue, if she brings it up or asks about it - just tell her that those kind of magazines & pictures are for grown-ups like mommy & daddy. And maybe tell her daddy to hide them a little better next time.
2007-05-03 11:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by ohsnapbeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, tell her daddy to keep his porn out of reach. No, that will not turn your daughter gay. Don't worry about it. She has no idea what she was looking at, she definitely won't remember it tomorrow. It was just playboy. It's not like it was two people going at it hard-core on the bathroom floor in front of her. (Even that wouldn't affect her one bit, honestly) Just act like nothing happened. If you make a big deal out if it, she'll just be more curious.
2007-05-03 11:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by aerofare 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Don't be mad either. You daughter is only 2! I'm sure she didn't know what it was. She's curious and still extremely young. Explain to her that when you take a bath or use the "potty", use look like that. She won't grow up to be lesbian. Two years from now, she won't even remember it!!! Trust me. Also, don't yell at her daddy. Just tell him to hide them in a safer place. It isn't his fault she found them. She's just CURIOUS AS A TINY TOT!!! Good Luck!!!
2007-05-03 11:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by kristaa. ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should be tearing into her daddy for leaving it laying out like that.
Children are only human and want to learn about the body. More than likely she was interested because it was something she had not seen before. However, to assume she will become a lesbian is just crazy. Calm down and get on to that father for leaving that out!
2007-05-03 11:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by Momma2katyandarianna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF you are serious (and my guess is that that's a BIG if) your child is young enough that she should be ok if you can just explain it to her. However, it is actually child abuse to view porn in front of a child and if your child got ahold of porn, then clearly that is worse than someone else viewing porn in front of her. Both you and your husband could actually lose custody of your daughter over something like this. You need to get all the porn out of the house, or at the very least, put it somewhere high up and safe that you know the children cannot reach.
2007-05-03 11:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by gumby 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok frist take a breath. Everything is fine. Put up the Playboys, out of reach of the tot. and get over it. She will not remember and it will not turn her gay. Most likey she was more intrested in the colors then what was really on them.
2007-05-03 11:00:39 · answer #8 · answered by ell02jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes just two, she doesn't know what she is looking at. Kids will be curious about their bodies, and that's normal and good. just ignore this, she was looking at pictures and NO don't blow her daddy's head off. just put the books somewhere else. always be honest, open and loving and your precious daughter will grow up to be an honest, loving mom herself. good luck to you.!!!!
2007-05-03 11:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by yp_deets_peralta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm 16 now but i do remember watching porn when i was 13 ONLY because i was curious about sex, but now would the best time to talk to her about the sex topic it's gonna be very uncomfortable but it has to be done it you OBLIGATION has a parent to do it. Taking away her electronics is not going to help your just stirring the pot that will explode 2 years down the road The best punishment you can ever give you daughter it an Honest and Open conversation about sex and SAFE sex you should educate her about it. She has a boyfriend so most likely they are thinking about sex at their age and well you should also have the boys parents talk him. I think sex at 13 is way to young even sex at 16 that's way i have never done it. You can but a parental control program on her computer or a safe mood so she can't access porn and stuff like that. It's a good thing she watching it because as a parent that lets you know she's curious and she has questions about it. She might be scared to bring it up to you because you and your husband would freak out. You have to remember you were a teenager once, and i'm sure you were curious about sex and you went out there and did it just to see what it was like or you thought you were in love or something.
2016-04-01 07:14:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋