i've suffer with depression and have been devios to obtain extra meds to overdose on, i want to say sorry for all the trouble because i feel i usually have a good relaTIONSHIP WITH HER
2007-05-03 10:46:57 · 13 answers · asked by sylv 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Be honest, she'll appreciate it.
If you can't face her in person just yet, then write a letter explaining what happened.
It would be better to go in person though, if you can.
She will know that it is the illness, that caused you do to it, and will want to help you through this difficult time. You can still have that good relationship, if you talk to her.
Do it as soon as you can, because the longer you leave it the harder it will be to do.
Tell her how much pain and distress you are in, and then work with her to do things to help yourself.
Maybe finding a local support group or mental health charity in your area would be something else to consider, and your GP should be able to tell you if there are any about.
Try the Mind website
http://www.mind.org.uk/Mind+in+your+area/
they are easy to access, not at all formal, all you need to do is give them a ring.
The site also has lots of other useful information on it, so have a look around while you are on it.
Don't worry you won't have caused irrepairable damage to your relationship with your GP, but it is worth hanging on to them, as patient and understanding ones, when it comes to mental health, aren't all that easy to come by.
Good luck and take care.
2007-05-03 18:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jules 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I think it's great that you want to apologize to her. Sometimes we forget that doctors are more than just "professionals," but that they are people with feelings too. Yes, she is professional, and yes, she understands that you have issues that are leading you to make these choices. Apologize in whatever way you feel comfortable with, either in person or through a short note. Say pretty much what you said here...that you're sorry for lying to her and that you value her professional relationship. If she's your family doctor, maybe you could talk to her about giving you a referral to a psychiatrist or a therapist for further help with your depression. Hope this helps.
2007-05-03 13:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by Angelia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doctors are really busy and overworked. Maybe write a short note, explaining the situation and simply aplogise for your behaviour. If you go over the top it will make you look a little unstable and after what has happened you don't want that.
Good luck
2007-05-03 13:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by lisab28uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an appointment to see her, explain what you have done, wipe the slate clean and let her begin again to give you the help that you obviously need. It's no use burying your head in the sand you must face up to your problems with the help of a professional recommended by your GP. Good luck. Do it tomorrow.
2007-05-03 10:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by little weed 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you can't face her in person why not write her a letter telling how you feel. If she is a good Doctor I'm sure she will understand. Are you getting all the help you need? I hope you feel a bit better soon x
2007-05-03 10:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by Mary D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, We are very proud of you and I am so happy that your treatment has gotten you to a place that you are even attempting to do this.
From experinece, I always get closer to my clients that are honest with me about that. Then a relationship can begin with mutual trust and you will get more out of it.
And Please dont think you are the only person that has done this. But I know there arent too many that own up to it with their MD. GOOD for you.
2007-05-03 15:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by Psychogirlfrog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. People all have moments when they do things that may disappoint others but simply saying you are sorry will show her that you do feel bad about your actions and are ready to work on the problems.
2007-05-03 10:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just write a message telling her you're sorry. She probably understands that it was the illness making you do it anyway.
Doesn't mean though that you'll get away with doing it again.
2007-05-03 10:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doctor doesnt need an apology. They aren't your friend. They're professionals trying to help you. If you act up, they know it's cause you've got some gears jammed upstairs. They'll work with you to get them fixed or they'll recommend someone else who can.--if they're good doctors
2007-05-03 10:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go and book a double appointment with her, and be as totally honest as you can. She'll respect you for that, and your relationship will be even stronger afterwards. Good luck!
2007-05-03 10:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by Lobster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋