I know a guy that I have been friends with for a while and we have been out several times and enjoy each others company. He wants me to go to a strip club with him this weekend, I am not sure I want to go because of the nudity thing. I want to spend more time with him but I don't know if I should go. What should I expect? How am I supposed to feel comfortable with a bunch of beautiful, naked women running around and possibly grinding on his lap???
2007-05-03 08:39:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll be surprised how many woman like these places. It's a real turn on for them. Give it a try and stay open-minded.
2007-05-03 08:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by spence_tnt 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
**VERY NICE..haha...I am going out to one tonight in fact :):)
(I love strip clubs....good times.) The girls are nice as can be.
.There is nothing wrong with going to a strip club, and if you ask me...it's all a matter of being secure and comfortable with yourself and the strippers.
.Look at it this way, they're not there to judge you...or to steal your man. The strippers are only there to get their money.
.I get lap dances from strippers everytime I go...and you know the funny thing about it is, one of the strippers who danced for me, actually told me SHE was intimidated, just because I was a girl...and she rarely gives girls dances.
Why? She hardly ever gives girls dances b/c the girls that do come into the club, act all bitchy and stuck up. And they're to scared to get a lap dance from one of the girls.
......so hey you only live once don't be so close minded about things, everyone has their own ways of making money...accept it.
....go get yourself a lap dance!
.....I will be getting a few tonight....it's hot.
2007-05-03 15:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT !! Its all in fun and you would be surprised at how many women actually go to strip clubs with their men! My wife surprised me once and went with me! we had lots of fun, she even let a dancer or two grind up on her! it was all in good fun! besides, it will be a huge ego boost for your man when all the guys see that you came with him! most think thats cool when another women comes to a strip club with their man! i felt like a million bucks knowing my woman was with me and also going home with me! i felt as though i was the envy of the whole club! so go for it and just have fun!!
2007-05-03 16:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by tommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, that is totally disrespectful that he asked you to go with him. As a guy, he's probably thinking it will just "be fun and get you in the mood" but in reality, girls don't like that kind of stuff and he should be more respectful. Tell him that that would be like you asking him to go with you to a gay strip bar. Tell him that you don't like the fact that he asked you to go with him. If he gives you a hard time or asks you again, then I would consider not seeing him anymore because he obviously doesn't respect you.
2007-05-03 15:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it is something your uncomfortable with dont go. Let him know its nothing against him but your not comfortable going. Maybe your seeing him as more than a friend if it would bother you if he got a lap dance. You should see were you guys stand and put yourself out their and see what happens.
2007-05-03 15:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by crystal O 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont worry the girls will grind on you too! It can be a total turn on if you are into that kind of thing!
2007-05-03 15:48:18 · answer #6 · answered by Purple_passion2805 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
they arent that bad really, at least the Nice ones arent that bad...plus, the gals there really like the women that come in... they want to show off to the guys, (because a guys fantasy is watching two gals, of course!)
2007-05-03 15:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him you'll go and to meet you in your house before you go.When he gets to your house give him a private lap dance and ill guarentee that he'll forget about the strip club
2007-05-03 15:46:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ultimately don't do anythng that you really don't want to do but if you are feeling adventurous give it a try - you might be surprised
2007-05-03 15:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by chewtheredpill 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a majority of them aren't beautiful so no worries
2007-05-03 15:44:50 · answer #10 · answered by sxyitlngrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋