Every time you fight he leaves and seems like each time he goes to the bar, and stays with his friend that night. Is he picking a fight to go out and get drunk or somthing else?
2007-05-03 08:07:44 · 13 answers · asked by J J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Possibly...until you dont put your foot down and dont take him back till he learns his lesson..That he will NOT break up with you, do some partying and them come back. If you continue to allow it he will continue doing it. Trust me...good luck!
2007-05-03 08:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes picking a fight as an excuse to leave the house and go to a bar. if hes staying out all night chances are hes seeing someone else and thats where he goes wen u guys are "fighting". wen u say "he leave and wants to come back" do u mean u guys have already broken up? if so, it sounds like things didnt work out with the other girl and thats why he comes back. Lose this guy get with someone who Does appreciate you, your worth more than this!
2007-05-03 15:15:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could just mean that he's unhappy and isn't using the best way to express himself. There's usually an underlying reason for behavior like this and it sounds mostly like he's immature. A real man will stay, deal with the problems or even not pick the fights to begin with. This is an unhealthy relationship with no positive direction in sight. Break it off before it breaks your heart.
2007-05-03 15:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably running away from his problems... and if you don't discuss the issue the next day, after he's been out all night, then he is avoiding the issue as if it magically disappeared.
if you two don't try to solve problems, learn to communicate and compromise, what's the use?
i don't believe i'd want a partner who ran away every time there was an issue. and if he likes to drink all of the time, that is another issue in itself.
take care of YOU... no one else will.
2007-05-03 15:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say if u 2 always get in to a fight get rid of him for good and find some 1 who will treat u right
2007-05-03 15:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either start an argument and leave first and not come back til the next moring to see how he likes it or get rid of his behind. So, what cha gon do?
2007-05-03 15:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to your question. Stop making excuses and trying to read between the lines. The answer is sitting in front of you. Move on.
2007-05-03 15:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by lilmomma4ya1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...not a good sign.
Ask him what's up with him and say that you've noticed this pattern. If he gets mad and is evasive or doesn't answer your question, then I think you should find a man more deserving of you.
2007-05-03 15:18:12 · answer #8 · answered by gestalt_chick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get out and stay the heck away from you.
2007-05-03 15:12:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, Don"t share his bed without a bloodtest !
2007-05-03 15:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋