My x-crush is now my best friend, so wrong with him?

Question

me and my friends (including my x-crush) were all in Austin, TX last weekend, and we all had a blast, me and my x-crush were having so much fun, he was so nice to me. Now that we are back he is acting like he doesn't know me, what's up with that? is there something brothering him? o and by the way he has a girlfriend, and i know that all he wants to be to me is friends, but whats wrong with him that now he won't talk to me. what's wrong????????

Answer 1

Personally, I don't think that there is anything wrong. I do think that you might have read a little more into the weekend than there actually was. If you have strong feelings for your guy friend, you might have thought that all the fun, and his being nice, were signals he was sending to you that he was interested in you. I doubt that he even realized he was acting like he wanted to be more than friends. You all were away, so that was a different element, and now that you are back home, things are back to normal. You said he has a gf, so I would just stay friends with him, and try to find a guy who wants to be with you as his girlfriend.

Answer 2

Whats wrong is your terms and how you think about this. Crush is an immature fascination with an object/individual. Its not magic to anyone but you, so what do you expect? He can't read your mind for one and come on how old are you?, your crush? You've watch'd to much TV, unless you want life to get really hard, real fast you need to start understanding how gosh darn intense and important interpersonal relationships are. Lets just say this, you can have a crush on a stranger, or even the enemy, what you do need is to find a friend that you can love and live your life with. Don't confuse your self with shallow infactuation or else your going to find that your minds eye was full of sh!t..... been there, done that, but heck its your life, now you've got that guy in a place were you could possiably develop a deep and meaningful relationship best on sheer honesty.... or you can just set there in indescion and confusion, not realizing that if you play it right friends become lovers, but lovers don't become friends....