I've only been with her almost 5 months but already she is my whole life. i love her with all my heart and soul and i really want to know how to really make her the happiest girl on the planet...even if just for a couple of minutes. Just for your information when answering this question:
1.We are both virgins and haven't got to THAT stage yet
2. I surprise her all the time with little things like sunsets and stuff and this makes her quite happy but i want her to be EVEN happier
3. Im 17, she's 18
4. We are both rather shy people
5. We both get nervous very easily
6. We are seriously and madly, but still truely, in love
7. We are not tremendously wealthy... i earn enough to be able to spend about £100 a month and that has to last the WHOLE month... including phone cred, anything i need etc she doesnt earn much at all. enough to get her to college and back and to get dome phone cred but thats it
8. We do not live together (we want to but do not have the finances at the moment)
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2007-05-03 05:01:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG that is soo sweet. My advice sweetie is just to make sure that she knows that you love her every day. Don't sweat her on her mistakes, tell her that you will love her no matter what. Leave her little notes sometimes (it's the little things that us girls love). Listen to her when she wants to talk, and give her space when she needs it. If you want, you can even buy her a promise ring (it doesn't have to be expensive at all!) just to show that you are willing to make a commitment to her. Hope that helps!
2007-05-03 05:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is going to have a problem then... You know why? Because IM the happiest girl in the world! LOL Im kidding. Not about the happy part, but I do certainly feel like I am, and this is why.
My boyfriend and I are 18 years old, and we've been dating for nearly 8 months now, and we love eachother to death.
We've both never been happier.
Most people are like, "How can you both be happy when you dont have sex?" #1: Were Christians and we dont have sex until were married. #2: We dont want to live together before were married, if we get married one day. #3: Theres no pressure on me for it either...
You dont need to live together when your not married
. MOST all relationships that go to that stage are ended. Get married first, but wait until your financially and emotionally mature. I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months, and we both can say that we dont know if our relationship will get to that marriage stage yet. Were not thinking about it right now, and you shouldnt either.
Besides, when you have trouble with money and crap like that, I garantee that your love for eachother will not be as noticable as it once was. Still just as strong, but not as noticable...
The best way to make her the happiest girl in the world, is to respect her and respect yourself.
2007-05-03 05:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by grjpbeatles2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read ur fulllll story but just 17 and 18 flashed my eyes. So I stopped the sarcastic statement which I was abt to put down here. Just a thought though u r just an underage teen - hv u ever seen a "happiest girl in the world ever" on the planet called Earth ? Just look around starting from your own home.
2007-05-03 05:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by Cant stop thinking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty speaking, I know people have fallen in love at the first sight of seeing a person, but you two freshly getting to know one another and you are young...Take your time...She is already happy just having you as a boyfriend...
You don't want to keep buying her things just to make her happy...You come off as though you are trying to buy her affection and love...
Continue the long walks on the beach, watching the sun setting over the ocean front, cooking dinner for the two of you, renting a movie, writing her a poem and etc...And when your finances are just right and you know shes the one you want to be with the rest of your life, then and only then do you want to buy expensive gifts (house, car, EXPENSIVE trips).
2007-05-03 05:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you love her. Go for walks together...hold her hand, look into her eyes and tell her how you feel about her. Money doesn't buy happineess or love, so don't worry about making $100 a month. Honestly, I would much rather have love over money any day of the week. Just don't ever take her for granted and show your love and affection to her with your words, you gentle touch and by just being yourself.
2007-05-03 05:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by Case 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already make her happy! i think what you do is enough! I've learned that money is just money when it comes to relationships! all the small things are better! like cooking at home and renting movies and spend quality time with each other is better! My b/f spoils me with gifts and always takes me out but sometime i don't feel that he is not emotional there for me. so keep up the good work!
2007-05-03 05:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-13 01:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, it seems like you make her happy, already. Maybe she's so in love with you that she already is on cloud 9. To make her happy - show you care. Money isn't everything so tell her you will be faithful, then be honest, however hard, and love will grow.
2007-05-03 05:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by mary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrute a heart-filled poem that is both happy and sad at the same time. i know that i love getting poems like that. and look! you don't need to spend money on her to make her happy.
good luck
~sakura~
2007-05-03 05:11:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry her or take her on a sweet non expensive date to her favorite place even though its not her b-day and treat her like the queen without showering her with gifts
2007-05-03 05:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋