Normal........?

Question

Well, I'm thirteen and going to high school this fall and have been homeschooling for five years. I haven't had any friends since I started because we transferred to another state. High school will be a completely different environment for me, which will take a lot of getting used to..I don't even know how to use a locker combination. Anyway, over the years I've been sick of not having friends. I get extremely bored and like to take walks outside in sl*t clothing to get attention (I have really small boobs & my butt is..kinda big I guess, but I'm skinny). I like *thugs*, *homies*, whatever you want to call them. My general interest in age of guys is typically 18-28, so high school guys will be a bit too young for me when I start. They either have to have a thug mentality or not looking for a relationship, because I don't want to have a relationship, I just want to fool around in my teens. What's the point in NOT doing that, I feel like a sl*t, but whatever. What do you all think?

I have to get braces soon, I hope that doesn't scare off guys..I can still be seductive. And I'm not looking for many "girl" friends...I just want a lot of guy friends. I often have fantasies (oddly enough) of getting raped, dunno why.

Answer 1

Honey, is this question for real? You've been homeschooled most of your life and you are only 13- a baby. I can imagine you feeling bored and not having friends because of that. You are charting very dangerous water. You are going to be in WAY over your head if you seek the company of thugs and homies. Especially at your age. They are going to jump you like fresh meat. Why do you feel and dress up like a sl*t? You're only 13, for God's sake. You have ZERO idea of what you're getting yourself into here. You don't even KNOW what a REALATIONSHIP IS, girl. Who made you feel like a *sl**t? Why do you want to dress in a sl*tty way to get "attention"? Do you know ANYTHING about birth control, and the possibilty of catching a sexually transmitted disease? Or, even worse, getting pregnant by one of these *thugs* or *homies*? Chica, you are so young. You don't even know how to use the locker combination, and you want to wear hootchie mama clothes and sleep around? These thugs or homies are going to treat you like crap and then when they're done with you they're going to kick you to the curb. A 13 year old going out with someone 5 to 10 years older than you is so stupid and immature. What's the point in NOT doing that? Well, you could save yourself a lot of heartache, for one. You could wait and find some good girlfriends to hang with and they'd knock some sense into you. Also, if you pull this crap when you're in high school, you are going to get a big fat reputation, as the girl who will do anything in sight. Is that really what you want for yourself? I think you have a Daddy complex. I bet you live with your mom, and there's no father around to teach you these things about guys. It's all going to lead to major heartache. You are too young, and immature. Doing this could well be the biggest mistake in your 13 years.

Answer 2

I think that you are suffering from childhood repression and are acting out because you have had limited social interactions with peers your own age and unrealistic stipulations placed upon you by your parents. As far as what to wear, Go to the Limited or Abercrombie and see what the styles are among girls of your own age. I would imagine that the school will have a dress code and you will be sent home if you dress inappropriately. Get involved with an activity of some sort, join some clubs, be a cheerleader, join the band...you might meet a guy your age that you find interesting.

I was an early bloomer physically and the older boys and even men in the age range that you have listed found me quite appealing. And of course, once you hang around with older guys, it is very difficult to give younger guys time of day. Especially if you engage in sexual activity. The point in NOT doing it is that you set yourself up for public and private ridicule. Besides the fact you can be exposed to STDs or become pregnant and I can assure you that those guys (who by the way should be doing time for messing around with a little girl) do not give a care in the world about you. I speak from experience. I wish I had an older sister or even a mother than was "in tune" so I could have been lectured or warned.

Answer 3

Ok sweety, first of all you are only 13 and guys that are 18-28 are definately way too old for you..I would love to say that you shouldnt even be thinking about boys,but that isnt realistic.However, you need to leave those older boys alone, they will cause you nothing more than alot of trouble..Maybe you should find an adult that you trust to talk to. I think you need some guidance b4 you get hurt.. OMG and you shouldnt say these things on the internet every no good pervert is reading this. Please try to talk to someone like your mom or sister.. Good luck..

Answer 4

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Answer 5

i would suggest your fantasies are a little outside the norm ----- and you are far too young to be after guys 18 plus if only because they will be in big trouble

Answer 6

You need to relax and stick with your on age group for now.

Answer 7

I think you're extremely young and naive to be going there.

Answer 8

instead of squeaky that should be freaky.