Hey dude I'm learning to play classical (& jazz) piano in private with an instructor, she's my music (associate-)teacher in senior high. I don't live with my parents so we (she & I) spent so much time together.
She's still young about 26 years old and still single, we often talk and hang out. I'm 18 now and I found her attracted with me.
2007-05-03 02:40:25 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we accidentally did it once (and 1st time for me) we did not plan for it. No one knows bout it even my friends. My mom and dad are in Kuwait or something-somewhere near Iraq. My sis is doing her nerd engineering stuff in Mass Inst Tech
She wasn't pg, we've tested. In school she doesn't teach in may class, she is a freelance instructor and still in prep to be a permanent teacher in my school.
Is it OK because she's not yet a full time teacher and we won't do that again not in these months.
2007-05-03 03:02:03 · update #1
Damn, all of these things are because of the National Lampoons craps. Never let your little brother watch them!
2007-05-03 03:17:14 · update #2
There isn't anything that can be said, unless someone finds out inside of school. Outside of school, you are 18, you can sleep if her. But since she is also your teacher inside of school, she could get fired, and you could be expelled. I'm sure that since you are 18, you will be graduating this year. After you graduate, go bal*s to the wall dude, rock on. =]
2007-05-03 02:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by jesa ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, the age difference there isn't that big of a deal, but since she is a teacher and you are her student, she may very well lose her job if anyone finds out you are in a relationship. Since you're 18, I'm assuming you're a senior in high school. If you feel you truly MUST be with her, at least wait till you graduate. It still isn't the best idea, but it will probably at least slip through a loophole in school policies and be less likely to get her fired.
2007-05-03 02:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your caught she will lose her job.It is common n it's funny cuz I just got in contact with all my school mates from high school n 1 of them was a friend who had a thing for her music teacher n they had to work closely for he was playing piano n she was singing n they where doing a song for 1 of our parents night.Anyways she did get involved with him n where never caught but if some1 had found out he would have lost his job.
2007-05-03 02:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you are out of high school it is highly inappropriate, might be illegal, and could get her into all kinds of legal trouble including losing her job, and possibly going to prison. Having sex with a teacher might be OK under more "mature" circumstances, but in your case you should wait - especially if you actually care about what happens to her.
2007-05-03 02:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all wait till your married. If you don't at least wait untill you are finished with the lessons just in case things get awkward. You are 18 so in the end it is really your desicion.
2007-05-03 02:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by Joe H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
specific! if the college found out hed get nicked for it!... thats ill! might you quite enable a 38 12 months previous take benefit off u? I had an english instructor who made a grant like that to me once I refused and he grew to alter into all humorous with me constantly choosing on me grading me low so i advised the college counseller promptly away n they kicked him out that minute!.....dont do it u do it as quickly as then hel commence inquiring for it continuously over different issues in the previous you be conscious of it hel completly take administration!
2017-01-09 09:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 18, you're too old for her. She'll toss you for someone about 14 to 16.
2007-05-03 02:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happens, for god's sake, don't tell anyone, ever..
If you get together then see it as something to be treasured, not something to laugh with your friends over.
Once you tell a single person, then you've lost control over the situation.
Count yourself lucky to have her attention, but whatever you do - take my advice and don't tell a soul.
2007-05-03 02:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
[you "accidently" had sex? you're not too smart, are you?]
student - teacher sex is always illegal.
do whatever you want when you graduate.
it doesn't matter if you're 18 now.
(*Note:I'm an Education major, so I've learned this in class but I live in Illinois, so it may be different in your state...I doubt it but I just don't know for sure.)
2007-05-03 02:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by sofia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until you two are no longer in a student-teacher relationship. She could lose her job if anyone found out.
2007-05-03 02:55:02 · answer #10 · answered by BamaBelle810 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋