2007-05-03 01:50:31 · 10 answers · asked by anserw machine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well... i know most people are going to tell u to leave her as... but what im going to tell u, is to actually ask urself this question... do you love her???
think really well about that answer, think about how happy/unhappy she makes u... think whether u guys fight 23.59 hours and live in peace for only one minute a day... or if u guys really have a great time together, and u hardly ever fight. think whether she's been there for u in the ups and the downs, or if she's only there for you when SHE needs u.
if the positive things outnumber the negative aspects of her... then my suggestion to you is to actually talk to her... ask her, how does she really feel about u... if she really wants to be with... tell her that u know about her cheating on u, and ask her if she is cheating on u because she loves the other guy more than she loves u, or if it is just lust...
if u feel she really loves u as much as u might love her, then, my suggestion to u is to get into a polymerous relationship....
a polymerous relationship is when u guys have sex with more people, and yest u guys dont get upset... u guys love each other, and u understand that having sex with some1 else is absolutely nothing but just releasing the tension, having a good time, embrasing the lust.
talk to her, set some rules, tell her to always be honest with each other... tell her what u wouldn't really like her doing... tell her to always use protection, tell her if she falls in love with some1 else to tell u.. and u will decide if u guys should still keep seeing each other or not...and about the rules... tell her what u wouldn't want her to do.... like for example have sex without protection.... and u do the same, have sex with other people, and follow the rules... be honest wtih each other from now on... and see if u like that kinda relationship... i surely wish i was in a polymerous relationship.
good luck
and remember, sex is absolutely nothing... just because u have sex with someone otherh than ur partner doesnt mean u love that peprson more.... there are other things more important into a relationship than sex.
2007-05-03 02:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not worth it....if she is cheating on you i would say move on. If she is with another man...just back away from the situation! You will find someone else....she will just keep cheating on you if you just stick with her. There are more girls out there. I understand that this would be hard. From experience i know...People that i know got married...and he had a cheating problem...which he said was resolved....and his girlfriend believed him....they gpt married...had three kids with in two years ( they had a set of twins then another baaby) Then she found out that he was still cheating on her....but he had cheating on like three other women since he was married the her. This really sucks for her. She is now pregnant with another baby...number four and she finds out he has been cheating on her all along. Stay away from cheaters!!!! I cant tell you how strongly i feel about this. I hope you make the right decision even if it is hard.
Have a great day!
Good Luck!
2007-05-03 09:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by Katalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your know that your girlfriend is cheating on you. And you've been "kicked out"? Does this mean that your girlfriend has kicked you out of somewhere? Dude, just leave her already! What are you waiting for?!? At this point she doesn't even deserve the courtesy of a goodbye. Don't let her treat you like this. Just dump her and move on.
2007-05-03 08:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you got "kicked out", I guess whatever she is doing now isn't cheating. It means she's moved on with her life, and that's what you should do.
2007-05-03 08:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by sharmel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to leave. If she is cheating on you why would you want to stay. You need to find a person that wants to be with you.
Good Luck.
2007-05-03 09:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her move to a nice state or country
2007-05-03 08:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him when theyre hanging out together and throw down maan!! make him eat soft food for awhile
2007-05-03 08:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by jim b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on with your life
2007-05-03 08:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave, she's not worth it.
2007-05-03 08:53:45 · answer #9 · answered by Ronnie Weasley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone
move on
2007-05-03 08:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋