i want him back!!?

Question

so i the 1 who dump him, but i want him back after like 5 monts.
but i cant get him out of my head, he is soo nice and i feel like am a total idiot 4 leaving him. i noe he still loves me. but...

Answer 1

It's been five months! if you can't get him out of your head then there's a problem. Have you tried talking to him and letting him know how you still feel about him - and that you made a mistake by breaking up with him? Express your feelings to him. Give him a phone call, or a send him a message.

But you cannot get angry if he has already moved on or does not feel the same way about you. That's reality. And it'll hit you hard. By then you'll have to move on and find someone else. There are plenty of nice guys out there that I'm sure you'll find interest in. You just have to get over this one guy first and get him off your mind - that way you'll be able to move forward. It'll be hard, but you've been without him for 5 months now, is that a sign to move on?

If you two still love each other, then perhaps it'll work out. You need to confront the issue together. If not, it obviously wasn't meant to be. And you'll definitely find your match when you least expect it. As corny as this sounds, there are plenty other fish in the sea! So maybe it's time to stray away from your ex and start fishin!

Hope this helped and good luck.

Answer 2

We probably all have fond memories of an ex at some stage, but there is a reason that relationship ended. If you were with him, then dumped him and then you say he's soo nice - what has changed? It may be possible that he still likes you, but if any of my exes came back 5 months after dumping me... I certainly wouldn't just "go back" there without her proving I could trust her. It hurts to get dumped.

Answer 3

Why do you dump him in the first place? You still love him? If you do, always remember to treasure the relationship and do some nurturing, and not to do anything you would regret later.

If you are not very sure, then, however nice he is does not really matter. What if you get him back (which he would agree to come back to you as he still loves you) and dump him a second time? He would hurt even more.

Answer 4

Why did you dump him the first time?
What makes you think you won't dump him this time?
And if you are back together how can you be sure that he won't dump you now?
And also think about this: you want him back because you really care and love him or because you are used to be out of habit with him?
Good luck with your decision :)

Answer 5

I know exactly how you feel believe me. The best thing for you to do is first try. Try to show him that you still love him and that you want to be with him. Second prove that you will be better to him. I am honest to my girlfriends and I like them to do the same with me. I have been told times and times again comunication is the coar element of a relationship. I have been in your situation before and to tell you the truth I still love her and miss her very much even though it has been teo years since we have been together. Get the ball rolling before it is too late trust me!

Answer 6

Well first think about why you dumped him in the first place and consider if you can go through that again.

Answer 7

what is the But for... if you want him back and he still loves you.. evaluate WHY u ditched him and the reasons why u want him now after this time, is it just a comfort thing, you know him and he knows you or a 'lust' lonely thing. if it is those reasons dont go back into a relationship. just take more time

Answer 8

find out if he wants you first if so ask to meet up as friends donnt for get you must of hurt him if he love you he may want you back to tell him why you feel like this now see if this works ....good luck silver fox

Answer 9

Remember why you dumped him in the first place...

Answer 10

why did u dump him when u know dat u still luv him ...i think he won't come back to u becos u were d one dat dump him.
think about it