Silly question I know, but if you're single and want to approach a girl you like the look of in a bar or club, how on earth do you go about doing it. I have confidence to an extent, but not actually going up to a random girl. What is a good convo to start? It's just so hard. Hard to explain and I hope someone knows where I am coming from. No silly answers please!!!
2007-05-03 01:38:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-05-03 01:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by dr strangelove 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing I suggest is try to establish eye contact and smile when you do. It is a small step, easy, and non threatening for both of you. This tells her your interested. If she smiles back, then she is interested and the next step is easier.
Remember, your whole focus in on her, but, you don't exist yet ( to her) so it may take awhile to really get her attention. You can move around the place a little and after awhile she is bound to see you.
There are probably books written on "opening lines", but I like honestly and something with a little sense of humur. Woman generally love that because it conveys something about yourself and makes the situation relaxed and not tense.
How about, you walk up and say, " you know it is really funny, with all the people in this place, your the only women)
2007-05-03 02:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by the-nurse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a female point of view, with no silliness, I like it when a man come up to me and asks me my name. i also like it when they comment on my eyes, or hair. Anything to break the ice. If I am interested I will reciprocate with a comment or complement to the guy. Breaking the ice is the best way and everyone wants compliments from others. The biggest turn on to a female is not to be approached as a potential bed mate they want to be seen as a person with brains and the ability to carry on an intelligent conversation even with some beers in them. Remember bars are okay to meet nice woman but they are looking to meet someone who can see them as the female they are not part of the meat wagon on a Friday night. Just be yourself and the right woman will pick up on your sincerity and you will be on your way to a new relationship and who knows maybe something that can grow into a great future.
2007-05-03 01:48:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women love men with confidence and a great personality. Over confident and shy just don't cut it. Go over to the bar or where they're standing and try to bring up conversation. Like how about those Sabre's...Trust me, if the girls don't want to be bothered it will be quite obvious. I have met many people through casual conversation. Offering a drink is always a plus...But you have to watch for the gold diggers....Good luck! Be confident and remember, it may take a few attempts before you get a bite....
2007-05-03 01:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by SammyD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-14 17:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one if you are approaching them at a bar...we are programed for "cheesy pic up lines in the club scene...you could start off by what time the bar closes and where there is to eat around there at that hour.. don't follow that with a sexually cheezy puncuation PLEASE!!!
2007-05-03 01:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by Leah J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get drunk, walk up to her and start talking. You open your mouth and speak. Tell her something like "is that a mirror on your pants, cause I can see myself in them"...always a damn good ice breaker.
2007-05-03 01:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Honey 78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ask her if she is enjoying herself smiling is good be natural just be your self she may be nerve too see how you go if she smiles and start to talk you are half way there and just relax if it donnt work out remember what you said what worked and what didnt. silver fox
2007-05-03 01:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by aidanj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there was an article about this in Yahoo a while ago a i think u should search it, it was really good..
google it, u'll find what u need!!!good luck.
2007-05-03 01:41:40 · answer #9 · answered by the_one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just approach her and talk
2007-05-03 01:40:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋