Is it harder for girls to let go of the guys that that they have slept with,??

Question

-Adults only,no immature childish answers plz!

Answer 1

It's not harder to let go of males you've had sex with. Some of the best relationships in the world can be ones where you didn't have sex whereas some of the worst relationships imaginable had a lot of sex. Sex isn't what makes a relationship something you emotionally attach yourself to. The only times where sex played a factor in it being hard for me to get over someone was whenever my boyfriend cheated on me when I was 8 1/2 months pregnant. I really can't even say it had anything to do with the sex, just that he and I were expecting a child and he already abandoned responsibility for his son.

I think it's equally hard for people because having a lot of male friends I know how emotionally they can get over their ex-girlfriends who they had been intimate with or loved very much. Feelings don't have a gender of being female or male--they're just human.

Answer 2

Yes, it's a fact. There are various cultures around the world. Such things are quite common in the West, but in Asian countries the social laws are a little stricter.

So if a girl sleeps with a person here (especially if it's her first time), she definitely can't kick the guy out of her heart easily. This has happened to me recently, when the girl I loved got engaged to another person who was her first love. I loved and cared for her so much that no other guy could possibly have, but even then she readily accepted his marriage proposal even though he had dumped her a lot of years ago. She says that she's helpless, she can't get him out of her mind, and that it feels like he's running in her veins.

But it's a fact too that every other human is somewhat different in nature. I know girls on whom this theory doesn't apply, they're not human, they're worth another word that I don't want to use here. Basically those girls are after money, not the heart.

Answer 3

I agree its true.. For some reason when a guy initiates a break up after theres been sex in a relationship the girl seems to hang on forever. I think its because when a woman approaches a relationship which moves to the sexual reltionship they tend to see it as a forever kind of reltionship. Its a gene thing its not a slam at women. Men just usually move on. I will say women also have a tendency to already have there next guy in there sights before they initiate a break up, thats called brains.. guys usually don't think that far ahead.. LOL

Answer 4

yes it is. For us women we get attached to who we sleep with. Something we can't control. That's why some breakups are nasty. I remember a guy I thought was it. I had a extremely hard time letting go of him because we slept together more than once. It has to do with our emotional makeup. Once someone has our heart we want to nest, settle down. IT's hard for us to let go of that.

Answer 5

I'm only 16, but from my experience, I think it isn't that hard to let go, if the gurl seriously doesn't like the guy anymore, no matter how good the sex was. If they still "love" that guy, then yeah, pretty damn hard.. But it's the same for guys too, if they "love" the gurl, then it kills them to let go of a gurl, too.

Answer 6

I think it depends...but in general yes, I think in general women have more of an emotional attachment to guys they have slept with. Kinda sucks doesnt it?

Answer 7

Sleeping with a guy does not matter but it is how you feel about him.If you love him it is difficult to let go but if you dont you let them go.That is what makes it possible for some women to be in bussiness of sleeping with men once and get cash then let them go.

Answer 8

If anything it can be easier because you can easily justify letting them go for a good reason. Because you already had sex with them out of wed lock therefore, it was not going to work anyways. :)

Answer 9

if u are not bothered then you can take it as simple.But not every girl will be like this.A girl will sleep with a boy only when she will think that person is her partner in her life.So when girls had offered them sex then they cant think of forgetting them.you cant compare this with people having shake hand.

Answer 10

I think it all depends with how you felt after sleeping with him. If he turned you on, then its something else, but if it was just sex, then i cant see the hardship of letting go.