Ladies: What is the biggest thing that guys don't get about girls?

Question

What is it you wish we would "get"?

Answer 1

that we want you to hold us anmd comfort us and be our strong rock in lifes stormy weather

Answer 2

Attitude is very important in all mannerisms, it will become natural after a few try's.
I think a girl wants to have her boyfriend to carry himself with confidence, no matter who he is or what station in life he is. The more you exude confidence, self-worth, a take charge attitude, it shows as soon as you walk into a room. This woman wants her man to be her equal, but also her protector, anywhere you might be together, but not not too possessive.
But you must let her have her Independence, a quality that may have attracted her to you in the 1st place. Don't hold her under your thumb, you don't need to text msg. every 5 minutes.
Take the relation slow, savor it. Look forward to waiting a few days in between visits, so when you do finally get together, the feeling is electric...mmm. No instant words of love. Say what is true, love takes awhile.
Most of all, enjoy all the intense feelings of a new relationship. But, don't push it at 1st, ever. Take relationships easy, slow.
To understand a girl is easy, because if she thinks you can slay dragons for her, you'll have her in no time. That's all we want, it's all about the moves. (And honesty, friendship, fun & laughs).

Answer 3

The fact that there is one week out of each month that we have a right to be sensitive, emotional, and moody, and they don't need to do things that would upset up or you're just not thinking.

It's also very nice if you do sweet things and are affectionate for no reason at all, you get brownie points.

Answer 4

Sometimes when we're upset we don't need to talk. Sometimes it is useful to get it off your chest, but a lot of the times we just need to be held in the arms of the guy we care about, whether that be our bf's or a close guy friend

Answer 5

- That we will change our mind on a moments notice
- Pay a compliment before we start picking our outfit apart and ask if our butt looks big
- We are more sentimental. Don't forget birthdays, anniversaries, etc.
- we don't like our guys to ogle other women in front of us - make it a quick glance
- notice things about us before we have to ask you. New hair cut, fresh manicure/pedicure, new outfit. we do these things for you - try to notice.

Answer 6

I wish you guys would "get" that if you'd look past the outer shell of a woman, you might actually like the person you get to know. And yes, I'm fat!!! LOL

Answer 7

Girls and guys are two diferent spieces. Sometimes girls say yes when they mean no and no when they mean yes. Girls want effection they need to know they are atactive and important to you. Alot of guys dont really listen and girls need that too. I dont know if guys and girls will really ever get eachother. Some say guys look for many girls to forfill there one need and girls look for one guy to forfill there every need.
Most girls want there man to be there best friend, they want to tell him everthing and thay want him to tell her everthing. We also want our guys to have eyes only for us basicly we want evryone elce to be unatrative to you, however we know this is impossible so dont say a girl is ugly when she is not we will know you are lying, however you dont have to point out when a girl has a nice *** or eyes,ect.

I guess to answer your question there is not one thing that men dont get about us. They just dont get us, and we dont get you either. :)

Answer 8

Truast me there will never be an answer b/c all girls are pretty Moody... you'll never find a girl who isn't!
She can be the wind , fire, catch my drift...
No matter what girls will make sure that guys don't get them it's a gift...lol
Well, good Luck on finding a right answer!!!!
But there really isn't one!~!!
:)

Answer 9

hm.. one thing i noticed, was that when girls like a guy, most of us never stare at them in class. we just sneak 2 nano second looks, but guys on the otherhand, will sit there and literally stare. don't you guys ever worry about getting caught hopelessly staring at the girl? or do you guys just totally zone out and not even realize it? i do notice that every single guy that has ever liked me, sits there and stares at me the entire period. i can see it from the corner of my eye and it can get a little weird sometimes haha but its cute. so yeah thats my question!

Answer 10

that we are WAY complicated beings, and although we usually mean what we say and say what we mean, sometimes, you do have to read between the lines and occasionally ASK QUESTIONS DIRECTLY!!

Sorry...bit of a rant there...can you tell I'm being given the brush off by my most current guy?

Answer 11

That we do think differently its in or DNA actually. So neither way of thinking is any better. We are not PMSing we are frustrated because we relay cant grasp how you think. Its complicated still working on it!