so my boyfriend and I started having sex, hes my first but im not to sure what im doing. hes not much better but we enjoy it. hes pretty much doing all the work and it makes me feel so silly that i dont know what to do. how can i work on what im doing wrong without the "practice makes perfect" ?
2007-05-02 15:26:38 · 7 answers · asked by Lost-in-Translation 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think most girls feel like that when they first have sex... and probably most guys too... and I know you didn't want this answer, but after you have sex more, you'll get the hang of it.. just start grinding your hips or something to where it feels good if you feel like you have to try to do something. But after you get more comfortable with it, it'll come to you.
2007-05-02 15:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read cosmo lol! really read a lot on the internet about new sex positions and stuff... practice a lot even when you are masturbating you are learning new ways to turn yourself on so then just go ahead and share them with your boyfriend that will make him even more aroused.
and don´t listen to the ones that say you should stay as a virgin... there´s nowhere in the bible where it says that sex is forbidden or that you will burn in hell if you do it before marrying someone... that´s something man made up to stop orgies and those things but there are no actual proves that god or jesus said that sex is not good... even jesus had a mistress as a companion so why is it bad?
2007-05-02 22:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being totally honest........watch some porno! It can do wonders. Hell, watch some porno with him......yes I'm serious, he'll love ya more if you do.
It can not only give both of you great ideas on techniques & positions, but it will totally get you both in the mood!
Good luck.
2007-05-02 23:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married first... Not necessarily to your bf, but to the right guy. And save yourself for your spouse. It says that in the Bible. Until then, abstain from it... it will only cause heartache and angst down the road.
Good luck!!
--Jake
2007-05-02 22:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex will destroy your life! It is the last thing you need to be concerned with. Damm if only I could explain what you are in for. But I know you have to experience life.
2007-05-02 22:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by sandra b 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Actually, you are practicing. There are books out there, too.
2007-05-02 22:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are sex therapsit out there, also you could learn to strip and then u will gain confidence and sex will follow and be great!!!
2007-05-02 22:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋