me and my boyfriend were going out for 2 years and we go to different schools.but i trusted him.anyways this new girl stared to go to his school and he told me that he liked her but he told me that he will not do any thing to her that would miss up this relationship that we had .well the nexted day i saw him hug her and i got mad so when i got home that day i called him and broke us up now they are together for three days now and he calls me every day and says that he loves me but does not now what to do and the girlfriend knows he loves me .so my question is what should i do seens i still love him and still want to be with him and he says he loves me and i totlay don't now to believe him or not.
2007-05-02 14:23:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a hug is not a big deal, you obviously didnt trust him. You need to let him know that if u get back together you would try to establish a more trusting position. If he is going out with someone else and still calls you to say he loves you, he probably loves you.
2007-05-02 14:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by specialJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is truely sorry about this whole mess he created. He needs to do one big thing first and that is tell her to buzz off and out and away. That would be the only way for him to do what is right and if he won't then you have your answer. If he is not willing to give her up, and stay with you totally then he has problems and he must solve them. But if he does call you everyday and says he loves you and does not know what to do leave it up to him to tell her to go out and away and stay out and away. Or else put it to him that way. And leave it up to him to do the right thing or else. And since he says he loves you and you love him. You must work together to get this straightened out and I hope and wish you the best of luck. Do what is necessary and tell her to go fly a kite without your boyfriend. I hope this works. And you and your guy should do it together.
2007-05-02 14:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by oldestme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL TO BEGIN WITH HE MESSED UP BY STATING
THAT HE LIKED THIS OTHER GIRL. WHAT THE HELL
I THOUGHT U WERE HIS G/F? HE OBVOUSILY DOES
NOT HAVE HIS HEAD ON RIGHT..... AND IF U ARE
STILL YOUNG THEN I FEEL U SHOULD MOVE ON
WITH UR LIFE AND ENJOY UR FUTURE. THERE IS
SO MANY OTHER FISH IN THE SEA, AS THE SAYING
GOES. ALSO U RESPECT HIM AND HE SHOULD
RESPECT U. THINK ABOUT ALL THIS AND TRY AND
DECIDE WHAT U REALLY WANT AND THEN TAKE
IT FROM THERE... WHAT EVER U DO I WISH U THE
BEST OF LUCK..................
2007-05-02 14:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋