But in a way that makes them think I don't actually like them (even though I do...) Help. Should I maybe make a joke while she is near me but tell the joke to my friend so she hears it to or something like that?
2007-05-02 14:18:45 · 8 answers · asked by Bob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How to Talk to a Girl You Like for the First Time
Here is a article on how to treat a girl right! You'll have her in your arms before you know it.
Steps
1. Compliment her on her style
2. Say her eyes are beautiful, but don't use a pick up line.
3. Tell her she has a beautiful smile.
4. Ask her questions (nothing personal) to get to know her.
5. Girls like it when boys try and defend them so make her feel protected.
6. If you pick on her and pretend you hate her, then she will never like you. She'll think that you don't like her so she won't like you.
7. Girls feel at home when you talk to them honestly and openly so try doing that.
Tips
* Remember this: the best thing to do is tell her directly.She will think you are brave for admitting it.
* Give her a Compliment - girls don't like too many compliments it starts to freak girls out. A guy will become the total opposite of a crush.
* If at any moment you are playing a game in school, compliment her if she has to answer a question
* Say Hi in the hallway if you happen to walk by her. You will no whether or not she wants to say hi by the facial expression she has. If she looks like she would say hi back, then go for it. But if she doesn't, try another time.
o Be friendly but dont be overcrowding
Warnings
* If the girl doesn't like you and SHE said it, don't stop because she might get an idea!
* Also remember that EVERY girl is different - therefore, there is no specific set of steps to magically get your object of affection to like you. The reason she would like you is because she likes you for who you are. So just merely be yourself. No one likes a pretender.
* When giving a girl compliments, make sure not to over-do it. If you've just told her that her eyes are beautiful, don't immediately compliment her smile. A little attention is flattering--too much and you'll drive her away.
Things You'll Need
* confidence
* good compliments
If you ever need anything else email me @: godsbaby42@yahoo.com
*Much Love* **God Bless**
2007-05-02 14:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by Tell Mariee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be very blunt... just straight up tell her that you know she's beautiful... and if she asks what about her is beautiful you go on to tell her about her gorgeous this and her stunnig that... but it's gonna take way way lots of courage... i finally did it and i was soooo scared... but it turns out that me and her are goin out and if ou count all the times we went out it would be 9 months all together =)
so who knows it may turn out great it may turn out awful or it may not affect anything and she may just take the compliment and then just keep goin on with life...
so yea... but i believe if you do tell her than it's gonna get soooo much off of your shoulders
~haloguitarist
2007-05-02 14:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by Haloguitarist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them like you would the girls you haven't yet put up on a pedestal.
2007-05-02 14:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself go up and talk to one tell her shes pretty and start a convo with her
2007-05-02 14:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by ryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be like
Hey girl how you doin, you are the woman that im pursuing and i would like to get to know ya, can you give me your name, and jot down your number n youll get mine in exchange hey
2007-05-02 14:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by CrAnK iT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her and be yourself
2007-05-02 14:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God made air,
God made dirt.
God made boys
So girls could flirt.
2007-05-02 14:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by NSoySauce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.Thats a hard one.Gimme more details.IM me or something. screenname:i_love_green_day121
2007-05-02 14:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋