After hardly any contact for a couple of months my ex has suddenly started talking to me again and wants to be "friends". i stayed single for along time, trying to get over him and he knew this as i tried at the begining to get him to undertsand how i felt, then 1 week after i have a new boyfriend, hes back in my life. as the break up was due to just growing apart due to his job, he apolagized. but should i suspect hidden motives?
2007-05-02 12:36:14 · 12 answers · asked by darkness_says_hi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Haha yes...somehow he found out about your new boyfriend I would assume...either way, he is your -ex for a reason...it is better for you to stay completely away from him...good luck
2007-05-02 12:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by poker_fan_in_nyc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 06:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that it is quite suspicious that he started to contact u again all of the sudden. However, rather than motive, it may be the change of feelings or something affected him to do it. The best answer I can give you is that if you already have a boyfriend, and if you like somebody else already, and you believe that the ex is not needed for you, you don't have to hang around with him again.
2007-05-02 12:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now I no your not stupid,come on now don't you think it's kind of funny just when you get a boyfriend he walks back into your life.Do you think that is just a coincidence,men can be so predictable at times.You will be sorry if you let him back in,if he would of come back because he loves you that would be different but that is not the reason he is back.He is back because he wants you here and alone just in case is is ready to come back to you.He will brake up with you just as soon as he knows that other guy is long gone.
2007-05-02 13:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont take him back it wasnt meant to be because once God has put a man and a women together aint nothing can break them apart. If I was you I would let him go he finally wantd to talk to you a couple of months later hell no i'sm not to choose your love for but look deep in your heart and see who you really wanna be with and ask yourself do I want to move forward or backwards God bless and good luck,
2007-05-02 12:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should my ex came back after 8 months of not talking to me... he knew i was happy with my new bf and at first he was like lets be friends but after a few weeks he started to ask me out then started telling me lies that he knows that my new bf cheats on me... that he saw him at a party all over some girl and how much betetr i would be if we got back together... he even broke into my myspace and changed it so my new bf would get mad and leave me... stay away from ex bf
2007-05-02 12:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by lovepixiek 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about him. Your focus should be on the new relationship you have now with the new BF. Your ex should F* Off and let you go on with your life. Don't wonder anything abou the breakup and just move on he's obviously only coming around becuase he found out you found someone else and he has lost his chance with you . he snooze and now he lost. Be the better one and avoid him.
2007-05-02 12:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like his last fling ended and he is wanting you back because he knows you ll come back. Don't give in to him, stay with your boyfriend now. your ex probably is just looking for a sure thing till he finds someone new.
2007-05-02 12:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by every1sfool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He's just trying to get you again. DON'T FALL FOR IT!
tell him that you want to be friends, (if thats the truth) but you don't want to get to close or anything.
BEST OF LUCK!
2007-05-02 12:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by <:3)~~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is super jelous!!sometimes that is what it takes to win a guy back!!
2007-05-02 12:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by caden S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋